So my boyfriend breaks up with me..but I already liked another guy and was gonna break up with him anyways...So I find out the guy I like likes me too..and he dumps his girlfriend for me...And he asks me out the day after my ex broke up with me....Does that make me a sl*t?
2007-01-16 10:07:19 · 21 answers · asked by *..::Sky::..* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you where just checking your options and it work out into a relationship your not a sl*t just a girl who get whats she want out of life
2007-01-16 10:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It's not like you are sleeping with both of them at the same time or nothing. You can't sit around pining away for a boy who dumped you. He dumped you, not the other way around. The other boy asked you out, not the other way around. Don't ever let people imply that it would make you a sl*t. You are a strong woman who knows what she wants. There is nothing wrong with that. Good for you by the way for not being upset about that boy dumping you.
2007-01-16 18:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that makes you a sl*t but be care full with this new guy. I worry he might turn around and do it to you, if it was that easy to do it to another girl. But hey, no one really knows how you two feel and it is up to you if you are able to keep him.
2007-01-16 18:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it makes you a 'kid' and that's just fine if you're under 25. Beyond that, you maybe need to 'take a break' from dating and 'grow up' but if you're under 25 (and I think you are) then you're 'just fine' ... but I do hope that you are NOT HAVING SEX with these people right away, because then you could easily become a 'slut' ... and to me, a slut is any person who 'gives sex' as a way to hang onto a partner, instead of as an act of 'loving communion.'
2007-01-16 18:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless he is only after you for sex and you give in. Just take it very slow and do a lot of talking to see why he dumped her. It it was only to go with you, he may dump you as well once he gets what he wants from you.
2007-01-16 18:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it dousnt make you one but it is a very immature situation dont jump rite into a new relationship because then you will get crap for it from other ppl take a little time off let the whole breaking up thing cool off and become old news
2007-01-16 18:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by simply happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If u were gonna break up with him then who cares at least ur not sad and all hung up on him be happy that something new has came along so dont worry.
2007-01-16 18:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by valeri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that doesn't make you a sl*t unless you do that all the time, I've done that before,and know one considerd me a sl*t.
2007-01-16 18:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck
2007-01-16 18:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it does but think about it, if that guy dumped his girlfriend for you, then he will dump you in the future for someone else
2007-01-16 18:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋