Was this the right choice??

Question

my dad was dating my step-mon for two weeks before we met her, which was in November 2006. My dad had known her for ever. then one night changed everything...he got engagned on 13th of January. Me and my brother had only known her for 2 months. i was happy for my dad but deep down inside of me, i thougth it was too early. about sometime in Jan..she had moved in. and then dec 2nd came, wedding day. i told my dad that it was too early and me and my brother weren't ready to have a step-mom or have someone else in our lives. but all he does was just laugh at me thinking it was some kind of joke...i know there isn't anything do about it. Was it the right choice to make if you were him? i was thinking on going the Dr. Phil show to help us cuz my brother is struggling in school and he even tells me what the reason is. what should i do? and i'm srry bout all of this but i just don't no to wat to do...please help

Answer 1

Here's the number one question: Is your father happy? Does this new step-mom treat you and your brother with respect? Does she treat your father with respect? No step mom can take the place of a real mother, but as for now I think it would be okay to just take a step back, you don't have to stay in the same room with her and try to be nice. Just get used to her being around. If she is treating your father and you and your brother right, she will understand what type of a change you are going through. Take your father aside and tell him that you don't mean to be rude but you don't support his descision. However, it was his descision to make. Have your father talk with your brother, and explain that you don't necisarily hate this new person, but let you and your brother adapt slowly. Then only time can properly tell.

Answer 2

Is there a teacher at school you both could talk to about this? Maybe someone at church? Without the details about each of you in your paragraph above very little specific advice can be given that would be correct. If she is a fine person and well motivated and your father is a fine person and well motivated then you should be able to relax a bit and everything will work out for the best in the long run. The more you boys talk to your dad about your concerns the better. Things like this are always going to be tough, so don't get too discouraged. Time usually helps a lot.

Answer 3

a million) bathtub or bathe: bathe 2) fowl or pink meat,or Salad: Salad. 3) Corn truffles or Biscuits: Biscuits 4) pink or Black or Beige: pink 5) Newspaper or mag: mag 6) Spring or Fall: Spring 7) Cake or Pie: Cake.

Answer 4

if you don't think this "step mom" is good enough for your dad, you give her hell until you move out. My mom got remarried to who is now my step dad, my step dad had 3 kids of his own and they though he was doing the wrong thing marring her so they gave her hell and now they live with their mom. so you give her hell k.

Answer 5

number1 its not your place to decide wether it was too early and number 2 u said your dad has known her for ever.