OK I meet this girl at a coffee shop and we hit it off really good we talked for like 1 1/2. Then she called me up and wanted to get dinner and a movie. But since I wanted to go alittle slower and get to know her better. We just saw the movie. She hugged me when we first meet at the movie and I hugged her when we left. I probley should have kissed her. I wanted to but wanted to take it slow and steady. Well she had finals and couldn't do anything. Then went home for school vacation. I called her on the 24 to make sure she made it alright and got voice mail. Then e-mailed her Jan 2 with my new cell number. I still haven't heard anything from her. I don't know if were done or she got into an accident. I don't want to contact her a 3rd time. WTF should I do? I kinda miss her.
2007-01-16 09:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by Frak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call on 24th
E-mail sent on Jan 2.
So total of 1 phone call and one e-mail ok.
2007-01-16 10:18:08 · update #1
I was in a classroom in college with a girl, but didn't really notice her until the very end of the semester, I was so lonely I could die until that nice shy pretty girl saw and pulled me from that couch and we walked together through the college and talked for 15 minutes then I lost track of time and had to leave. I was shy and didn't talk to her again because of that reason, another semester passed, I wasn't in her classroom and almost never saw her around and didn't talk to her when I had the chance.
Now that I want to, I mean I REALLY WANT TO, I CANT!!!!!!!!!!! So call her a million times if possible and then say sorry, I just wanted to talk to you again. DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE THAT I DID!
2007-01-16 10:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 01:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's looks like you like this girl quite a bit. and i think you should try calling her again. She might be playing hard to get. And i think it's nice that you were trying to go slow and steady. Not many guys i know would do that. That's really kewl of u.
2007-01-16 10:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely not interested more then friends. Sounded like she enjoyed your company at the coffee shop and she gave it a try. Don't call her the 3rd time; you will look desperate. If you got her voicemail, then she got your message.
2007-01-16 10:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by red lips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go dude; sounds like she may either be confused or swayed in another direction that's why she has not called; either way if you bother her she is gonna think you're a dork and you'll lose any chance you have.
2007-01-16 10:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by frenchtriad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with most of the answers, you have tried twice to call her, if you keep calling you will look needed and have no chance, give it a couple of weeks if she dosent call then you move on.
2007-01-16 10:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u made contact if no response let it go .. move on afterall u wanted to take it slow remember?
2007-01-16 10:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks slow and steady is weak! Don't be such a nice easy going guy. Be a gentleMAN, but be a man dammit!
She thinks you are a wimp nice guy.
2007-01-16 10:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should contact her hundred times if you really want her.in the first place you should tell her that you like her a lot before she leave.now take the risk to get her back
2007-01-16 10:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like you have tried very hard to contact her. try a little more.
2007-01-16 10:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by stapler and coffee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋