I like him alot but I don't say it often. I miss him when he is not around but I never tell him so. He keps telling me he likes me and that he misses me alot when we are not together . And I would just go quiet. What the hell is wrong with me?
2007-01-16 09:57:06 · 30 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm, theres nothing wrong with you at all. i hope you feel the same(really), try not to be shy because that could make him break up with you. just sit down and talk this out. i'm sure he will understand. tell him how you feel about telling how much you miss him. if he really likes you then he will help you out. if he doesn't do anything, then there is a problem. imagine if he doesn't accept this or doesn't change in any way to help you, he would not be there when you guys are in a serious relationship. think about that. its ok to be shy!
2007-01-16 10:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by dj idk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are still a teenager, I would tell you that guys at this age are not what you want, even though you feel like you really like some one, it's not that important. Guys will mess you up, take it from some one who has alot of experience. Wait till you are older to worry about guys, right now you should just focus on your goals and your family, your family is the most important thing in life, unless you have a messed up family that abuses you or something. And if you do then you need to tell someone that you trust. If you are older, then I would recommend that you tell him that you like him but do not be too pushy. Let him know that you like him but do not seem too desperate. Sometimes its good to make him work a little harder to find out what you really want from a guy. If he really likes you then he will try hard to get into your good graces. If he doesn't try hard then maybe he is not good enough for you. I always tell other women do not settle for someone that is less of a man than your father was. This is important because usually if your father was a good man then you know what kind of man that you need. It is important not to get all caught up in the moment. Most of our attractions to the opposite sex is just infatuation. Later on you find that your perfect someone was not perfect at all and you find out that he is not right for you or you accept the not so perfectness in him and you begin to truely love that person. It seems like you are a very shy person. You should try and work on this because it is important that you be able to express your self to other people no matter what age you are. Remember though just to have fun, do not take anything too seriously and make decisions that you may regret in the future. It is great to care about someone else and have feelings for them, but sometimes people can get carried away and find themselves in situations that they were not able to deal with in the first place.
2007-01-16 10:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by someone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !!
sounds to me like you have some trust issues deep within, someone hurt you in the past ? Not everyone is the same sweetie, we have to live and learn, let go, and not make everyone pay for the pain we carry inside.
live and let live, start today to show this person how much you love him, how you miss him. Show it to him, don't go quiet, put that pain away and start to live.
Say it to yourself, say it outloud, I am important, loud, I AM IMPORTANT , and do not be afraid to love and be loved
You are important
Believe in yourself, that is all you need, you know what I mean
Love light and peace
2007-01-16 10:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're afraid of telling him the way you feel, that's probably not good. There's probably nothing wrong with you, you just are afraid to open up to him. Ask yourself why. Does he not listen when you tell him other things? Do you feel that he's telling you these things just because he expects you to open up physically? Or does he truly feel this way? If he truly loves you, then you shouldn't be afraid to tell him. It's a little nervewracking, but you just have to swallow the anxiety and tell him. Of course, if he's just using you, you should move on, even if it hurts.
2007-01-16 10:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds that you are just shy around him. This is normal when you like someone a lot.
Some people think that once they speak words of affection, etc. that they somehow jinx the relationship. Go slowly, and just try to start by saying how glad you are to see him, next time you meet.
2007-01-16 10:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just being shy and nervous. You'll just have to overcome it and tell him what you feel. And do it soon before he gets the wrong impression. It's good that he is patient. Maybe he knows that this is just a character of yours. Well best of luck to you.
2007-01-16 10:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by goody54 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously, you're a horribly twisted freak of nature, a mistake of monumental proportions, a terribly disturbed and awful person, and you probably have bad breath, body odor, and webbed toes.
Either that or you're (1) not into the guy or (2) playing at being shy at the worst possible moment.
Stop it already.
2007-01-16 10:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer that question. Look inside yourself and ask "What Do I see happening if I did this? What am I afraid of happening? What's the worst thing that I can invision happening?" Regardless of your answers, nothing's going to be life threatening. : )
Remember, no guts, no glory!
2007-01-16 10:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by broomhilda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your a really sweat, though somewhat shy, girl who has found an almost perfect relationship.
If this assessment is accurate, just tell him how you feel.
2007-01-16 10:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, it's normal. Maybe you should write a letter saying how you feel because if someone didn't say anything to me if I said it. I would be curious to why. You have to do something but its okay that you don't feel comforble saying it.
2007-01-16 10:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋