There's this really, really, really perverted and annoying guy that is always around me. I'm not saying he stalks me in the sense that he actually follows me but I feel extremely uncomfortable around him. He's always touching me whenever he talks to me (pulling on my hair, snapping my bra, kicking my butt, squeezing my arm, etc.) and he always makes EXTREMLY perverted comments about my/his body to me and other people around me. I've asked a question about him on Yahoo! Answers before and it's been concluded that he likes me, but to tell the truth, I DREAD everytime I see him and duck in the hallways to avoid him. I feel like I shouldn't have to do this! The class that I have with him is almost over (3wks), should I stick it out or should I tell my guidance counselor or something. The thing is, I don't want that to backfire (he lives on my street!), what should I do?
2007-01-16 09:53:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take this as a person that likes you, he's making you uncomfortable and afraid. You say he's always touching you and snapping your bra and kicking your butt, this is Sexual Harassment. If this is happening in school, you should feel safe in school and it's up to the school to protect you. Go to your guidance counselor, the principal and get your parents involved. This happened to my sister and she thought she was overreacting until something awful happened to her before my parents could help her. Please get help now, good luck and remember that you do not have to feel unsafe in school or any environment. Tell your parents now.
2007-01-16 10:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Alaska Angela 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He snaps your bra? He kicks your butt?The way he talks to you is rude and inappropriate. This IS sexual harassment! Tell your councilor immediately! If he lives on your street, so what? Call the police if he does something. He may like you, but he's sure showing you by the wrong ways. Tell him to grow up! He is very immature! Good luck!
2007-01-16 10:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by texienana47 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a really easy one to answer and you have better listen! Anyone who snaps your bra strap, pulls your hair, etc., is a sexual pervert and you need to contact the police!!!!!!!
You tell them exactly what you said in your question and they should be all over this. I don't care if he lives on your street, in your house, whatever, this is not right!!!!
You must be smart enough to see what happens to girls in a situation like this. It is dangerous, let the police talk to him! You are a victim already, don't let him continue until he proves how dangerous he really is.
2007-01-16 10:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Blood 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to a counselor and tell them what you said here. Perhaps there is a way that you can switch to another class for the 3 weeks but if he causes problems outside of class, consider getting a restraining order if it gets too bad.
Perhaps he needs help and counseling and by speaking to someone he will get that.
2007-01-16 10:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your counselor so that your teachers are aware of what is going on (just in case he attacks you or something) stick with the class if you can stand it. your teacher might seat him away from you if they know the problem. make your friends aware of the problem as well, so that they can act as a buffer between you and him.
this is sexual harassment, if you have to file a complaint against him. the fact that he lives on your street is irrelevant, he cannot be allowed to continue this kind of behavior.
2007-01-16 10:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has instructed you to avoid her and you have not or didn't, she might get you for stalking her. The poem is beautiful however are you able to see now that it isn't liked from her and he or she is under no circumstances drawn to you? You stated, "I do not comply with her at any place", you do not have got to best do that to be viewed a stalker. Do you name her? Email her? Are you at any place close her like at all times? you have got to discover she desires not anything to do with you and you should not now even supply her the time of day sorry to mention, however precise. I will inform you something and also you must be feeling the identical manner. I do not cross close any individual who does not like me or in which I do not think welcomed. If she's already instructed you "to get misplaced" or whatever like that, to any extent further, sure she might cross and get you for stalking. Now that she has this "written poem" in her sizzling little fingers she now has extra proff towards you whether or not you are a stalker or now not. I consider there's only a tad bit extra in your tale. No one quite calls a individual a stalker ONLY considering that of a love poem. I have had ex boy peers force by way of my condo and I hate it. They have denied it till I acquired two exceptional men of direction at two exceptional instances. I instructed them each, if I ever noticed them in my neighbor hood once more I used to be going to get them on stalking. (They truthfully had been) I have no idea approximately you incidents along with her, however you know you both go away her by myself and transfer on or when you do retain to "hassle her" with anymore notes, or whatever you have got performed and been stuck but, you'll wager she is now watching for you and so are her peers....Just to head and now finalize that Stalking Order. If you have got performed zip, 0, null to her and ONLY gave her a bit poem then she's being a bit harsh to mention the least, however what she is MOST surely telling you is to go away her by myself. Sorry, Stalking isn't whatever to idiot round with and also you have got to simply transfer on ~
2016-09-08 00:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This type of control freak thrives on your fear of him and his ability to control you. If he touches you while you are in school, this is sexual harassment. You should tell someone about it, then it becomes the school's responsibility to control him. He also thrives on your silence.To him, inaction is acceptance of his behavior. The more he gets away with, the worse he will become. You must document everything he does to you so that if it ever goes to court, you will have evidence. Good luck and I hope he leaves you alone.
2007-01-16 10:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by yendyssixela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man touching you is guilty of Battery in most states. Call the police and sign a complaint and prosecute him.
2007-01-16 09:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should trust your instincts on this one. Tell his Mom when he is not around that he is saying dirty things about you and touching you in places that makes you uncomfortable and you want it to stop immediately.
2007-01-16 09:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell him to keep his hands off you and be firm, if he doesn't stop then report to a counselor
2007-01-16 09:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy Mae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋