I like this girl but my friend goes out with her, but before he asked her out he asked me wether i liked her and I said yes. Later on that day i would find out that they just started going out. I personally think he just wants to get in to her pants. While i really really like her, i guess you can say that i love her. What is you opinion on this matter? and what should I do?
2007-01-16 09:51:31 · 4 answers · asked by Luis B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and My friend like this girl and i didnt know he liked her so i was going to take my time and try to get with her. She is really nice and like her alot i guess you could say i love her. Then i found out my friend liked her and he asked me wether i did and i said yes. Later on that day i found out that they were going out. I was Mad and Sad that day and all i could think about was how the hell did i let her go. I know she likes both of us it was just a matter of who came to her first. Alot of my friends think that he is in it just to get in her pants, everbody thinks it is so akward that those two go out and they say that me and her would make a way better couple. What is your opinon? What should i do? What should have i done?
2007-01-16 10:49:07 · update #1
Me and My friend like this girl and i didnt know he liked her so i was going to take my time and try to get with her. She is really nice and like her alot i guess you could say i love her. Then i found out my friend liked her and he asked me wether i did and i said yes. Later on that day i found out that they were going out. I was Mad and Sad that day and all i could think about was how the hell did i let her go. I know she likes both of us it was just a matter of who came to her first. Alot of my friends think that he is in it just to get in her pants, everbody thinks it is so akward that those two go out and they say that me and her would make a way better couple. What is your opinon? What should i do? What should have i done?
2007-01-16 10:49:15 · update #2
tell him wussup, he's ur friend so he should understand but dont say n e thing to her unless u find out something really messed up kno wut i mean???
2007-01-16 09:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your best friend was wrong to go out with someone you had feelings for anyway, he doesn't sound like a friend at all. There is no such thing as a good friend or a bad friend, if you don't have the characteristics of a friend you are no friend at all. So that was his mistake. If you have feelings for her that's cool, but the fact that she went out with your best friend tells me that she likes him and not you. Sooner or later she'll find out what he's all about, if that's all he wants than they won't be together for long. But you deserve someone who likes you for you, not someone who wants to make your friend jealous or wants you off the rebound. Those kind of relationships never work. So forget her and him. He's not your friend, and she doesn't deserve you. You don't love her, you don't know her. You'll find someone who has the same feelings for you that you have for them.
Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-16 18:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should tell your friend that he already asked u if u liked her and u said yes! and tell him how u really fill about her thin no matter what cre about urself if u dont tell her how u fill it will eat u up inside although this is ur friend.. but still u told him u liked her!
2007-01-16 17:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think they will not be serious because of your friends motives, tell her what you think of how you feel about her and perhaps about him
2007-01-16 17:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋