im tall and goodlooking i get alot of attention but cant seem to ever close the deal any advice on how to start the conversation if you know shes into you? im 28/m 6/4 200lbs spikey brown hair brown eyes any women from ct looking for a nice guygive me some advice
2007-01-16 09:48:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tall and goodlooking? You are halfway there.
If your personality is good as well, then don't worry. You'll meet the right woman sooner or later.
The secret is to not act desperate but to be calm and interested in her. Ask her about her job, hobbies, family etc.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 09:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to what she says. Compliment her. "tell her she looks great in that dress" not "that dress is sexy". Find things that you have in common. And dont focus so much on "closing the deal". Just relax and have fun she will know if you are trying too hard!
2007-01-16 09:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ldy Bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first, unspike hair. second, loose weight, just a little, like, about 25-maybe 30 pounds. conversation starter: complements: "nice hair, where'd you get it done at?" "i like your shirt, nice designs" "you are very good looking, would you like to go have some coffee with me?" things like that... DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE WEATHER. WE ARE NOT GUYS. we DO NOT care about the weather...if you ask her out and she says yes, go out on a few dates...just to get things settled. if it's cold outside, wrap her up into your coat...she would love you.
2007-01-16 09:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by sadie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop pressing and worrying about what the chicks think. Think of them as a bratty little sister and just say hi and introduce yourself, then focus on finding out what type of person they are. If you focus on their looks, you are toast. Honestly, if you pick one out and say to yourself, 'I wonder if she is a biatch or not' and then go find out.
Think of them as really lucky if they get to know who you are.
You are the prize...not them.
2007-01-16 09:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, dating is not "closing a deal" Get a better attitude and you may have better luck.
2007-01-16 09:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean what i think you mean by "close the deal" that may very well be the problem.
2007-01-16 09:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find things you have in common with the female you're talking with.
2007-01-16 09:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a basic conversation ... like the classic "how's the weather?"
also.....talk about your childhood.and also listen to what she says.
girls like complaments.and also want great listeners
2007-01-16 09:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women generally dont like Flamers like you!!
2007-01-16 09:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get to know them then ask her out !THERE.
2007-01-16 09:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋