me and my best friend like eachother but he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend, i dont want to leave my boyfriend, i love him.
but this feeling is just so weird with my best friend. i dont know what to do!!!!!
i dont want to stop being his friend to stop the problem
2007-01-16 09:47:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm yea uh i guess do what you feel is right.. i know what you mean though... i have been in that situation but deny to admit it and well i didnt leave the man i love.
2007-01-16 09:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have feelings for your best friend, than I have only to guess that you do not really love your boyfriend. Though these feelings are probably just there because you guys have been friends for so long, if you're both involved with other people, and you both sit and talk and realize that your friendship and other relationships are more important than everything should be fine. But you both should make a list of the pros and cons of getting involved with each other. Maybe you'll see that the "feeling" you have for your best friend is nothing more than friendship. Good luck babe!
2007-01-16 09:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to sit down and talk about how you feel about eachother. If you feel like you can not treat eachother as just friends with these feelings you may need to limit your time together or part ways until perhaps you both are available.
2007-01-16 09:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to release that tension that exists between you two. You feel close to him because you are friends but I bet that some "hormones in the air" are spoiling the friendship. Go someplace far, outdoors, do an activity together and don't let your body fool you!!
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-16 09:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by edwin a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋