2007-01-16 09:32:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It makes someone depressed when you are not in the right relationship. You can love someone, but if it makes you misserable it is not healthy. I have been in healthy and unhealthy and I tell you that if it makes you depressed you need to get out. Unless they person you love is unable to be with you, like over seas. But if you see the person all the time and you are sad then move on for your well being.
2007-01-16 09:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ohhh, i know! same thing has happened to me recently. And it's my very first relationship! but I think i know why sweetie.
I've always thought that love is like a rollercoaster. And i know how cliche that sounds, but it's sooo true! Before I started dating my current boyfriend, I knew that I was ready for a relationship and that I was willing to go through it all. The happpiness, the longing, even the heartbreak if that's what it involved. I basically told myself that I want the rollercoast because it's worth it to be in love.
It's just that your emotions are so strong for the guy you love, and you've never loved someone that much before! Sure, you love your family and friends, but with a guy, it's different. Especially if your guy adores you. And when your feelings become so strong, small little changes and events can cause depression.
Like sometimes I want my boyfriend to be with me at the moment SO much, but he doesn't seem to care, and it can get frusterating. Or sometimes it feels like your love is so strong that it's blocking out other things in your life, and your boyfriend might notice this. Then you start worrying if he'll think less of you. Mostly, I get depressed from love when I'm not sure if I'm living up to his image and expectations and love for me. Or I wonder if he still adores me as much as he always had.
Through all these questions and wonderings, it's SOOO worth it! If you really love him, and he really loves you, then being depressed is just a momentary little thing that seems very insignificant compared to the happiness he brings you later. If you ever feel down, just try not to go too far down. He'll pull you back up again in no time, and you two will be blissfully together.
As long as he keeps you happy and listens to your concerns, then he can be the cure to your depression. Once you're close enough, you'll be able to tell him anything, and the occasional depression of a fresh relationship will slowly fade away to give space for a solid and purely happy love.
<3
2007-01-16 09:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by julka323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being in love makes YOU depressed not the rest of us.
Being in love makes everything else superfluous really. Most if not all depressions go away and everything is rosie. If you're in love and you're depressed then something is wrong. Either you or he needs to get your head on straight and remedy that problem and talking to each other is a good way to start it.
2007-01-16 10:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is depressing, But it's happiness too so if you are in LOVE we have to take the good and the bad with it
2007-01-16 09:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you give to much of yourself and lose yourself doing it.You are to much into him when you let love depress you. Love is happy, fun majority of the time. It's working things out together not one person controlling everything. Step back and evaluate you situation is it love or lust or nothing at all.
2007-01-16 09:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts--always has, always will. Being in love can affect your physical and mental health--as you are finding out now. The key to a good relationship is excellent communication--don't wait and let things build up until you're ready to explode--get it all out in the open.
2007-01-16 09:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only depressing if they don't love you in return. But don't worry - it will get better! Just forget the losers and move on to the winners.
2007-01-16 09:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...i love someone but i dont get depress, i get sad when he is not around. you need to explain a bit more
2007-01-16 09:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by .:peAchy:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is a scientific explenation to this. when your in love the chimecals in your body through the roof, when your love has ended/or what havcve you,those chemicals come crashing down. like a drug addict cutting cold turkey.....enjoy :)
2007-01-16 09:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by lb-rans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you put too much effort into something they don't understand or choose not to understand. they know what they have but their pride interferes with their heart and they lose what they have. trust me, i'm in love with a man who doesn't realize what he's about to lose tomorrow.
2007-01-16 09:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mexi Can 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋