getting over ex-boyfriend?

Question

okay well my ex-boyfriend i saw him flirting with this new girl at school and i just got really got mad and i really wanted to just kill the girl okay thats going a little to far but lets just say i dont know how to get over the fact that he has moved on any advice to help me get over him?

Answer 1

Maybe he did it just to aggravate you,and knew you would see him,he wanted to see if you still had feelings for him. Obviously you still do.

Answer 2

Well cookie, if you really liked him than it'll always be difficult when you see him with other girls. Thank god like fades away. The first thing you have to do is stop blaming and hating the girls that he flirts with. It's not their fault. They didn't use to date you. So stop. Just put those feelings of hatred toward him.....don't let it turn you bitter though....and eventually you'll find yourself smiling and laughing and totally getting over him. Focus on your friends and school, there are going to be plenty of boys for you babe. You're beautiful. Don't let this one hold you back. You broke up for a reason....move on. You don't need a boy to make you happy...but if that's what you want there is one out there made just for you.....and don't worry...that one won't be going anywhere. Good luck sweetie.

Answer 3

well first dont think about it.. u guys broke up and u arent good together so why are u getting mad? he isnt right for u so let some other girl have him.. and second, maybe u need to start dating also.. but dont get into something just to get over your ex because thats also wrong..
hangout more with your friends enjoy being single!

Answer 4

Most people will tell you you'll get over it or you'll meet someone else, but when it's happening to you, it can feel like no one else in the world has ever felt the same way. If you're experiencing these feelings, there are things you can do to lessen the pain. Here are some tips that might help:

Share your feelings. Some people find that sharing their feelings with someone they trust — someone who recognizes what they're going through — helps them feel better. That could mean talking over all the things you feel, even having a good cry on the shoulder of a comforting friend or family member. Others find they heal better if they hang out and do the things they normally enjoy, like seeing a movie or going to a concert, to take their minds off the hurt. If you feel like someone can't relate to what you're going through or is dismissive of your feelings, find someone more sympathetic to talk to. (OK, we know that sharing feelings can be tough for guys, but you don't necessarily have to tell the football team or your wrestling coach what you're going through. Talk with a friend or family member, a teacher, or counselor. It might make you more comfortable if you find a female family member or friend, like an older sister or a neighbor, to talk to).
Remember what's good about you. This one is really important. Sometimes people with broken hearts start to blame themselves for what's happened. They may be really down on themselves, exaggerating their faults as though they did something to deserve the unhappiness they're experiencing. If you find this happening to you, nip it in the bud! Remind yourself of your good qualities, and if you can't think of them because your broken heart is clouding your view, get your friends to remind you.
Take good care of yourself. A broken heart can be very stressful so don't let the rest of your body get broken too. Get lots of sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly to minimize stress and depression and give your self-esteem a boost.
Don't be afraid to cry. Going through a break-up can be really tough, and getting some of those raw emotions out can be a big help. We know this is another tough one for guys, but there's no shame in crying now and then. No one has to see you do it — you don't have to start blubbering in class or at soccer practice or anything. Just a find a place where you can be alone, like crying into your pillow at night or in the shower when you're getting ready for the day.
Do the things you normally enjoy. Whether it's seeing a movie or going to a concert, do something fun to take your mind off the negative feelings for a while.
Keep yourself busy. Sometimes this is difficult when you're coping with sadness and grief, but it really helps. This is a great time to redecorate your room or try a new hobby. That doesn't mean you shouldn't think about what happened — working things through in our minds is all part of the healing process — it just means you should focus on other things too.
Give yourself time. It takes time for sadness to go away. Almost everyone thinks they won't feel normal again, but the human spirit is amazing — and the heartbreak almost always heals after a while. But how long will that take? That depends on what caused your heartbreak, how you deal with loss, and how quickly you tend to bounce back from things. Getting over a break-up can take a couple of days to many weeks — and sometimes even months.
Some people feel that nothing will make them happy again and resort to alcohol or drugs. Others feel angry and want to hurt themselves or someone else. People who drink, do drugs, or cut themselves to escape from the reality of a loss may think they are numbing their pain, but the feeling is only temporary. They're not really dealing with the pain, only masking it, which makes all their feelings build up inside and prolongs the sadness.

Sometimes the sadness is so deep — or lasts so long — that a person may need some extra support. For someone who isn't starting to feel better after a few weeks or who continues to feel depressed, talking to a counselor or therapist can be very helpful.

So be patient with yourself, and let the healing begin.

Answer 5

Well for one you should move because he's your ex and you shoudn't worry. Life goes on and it doesn't wait on anybody. So move on and find you a nice guy who will treat you better and make you feel good and forget about him. But remember if he knows it bothers you he will faunlt it always to your benefit, knowing that he's hurting you. SO just don't worry and move on. need a friend to chat with, IM me anytime.

Answer 6

Unfortunetly, the only cure is time.

Time and a new guy.

You just have to let yourself grieve over the lost relationship and then slowly move on. Don't go at anyone elses pace. It's about you.

Answer 7

It's time for you to make new boyfriends.

don't worry about him just keep to your own heart and when you find a new boyfriend, you'll get over your ex.

Answer 8

You need to move on too. Find another guy.

Answer 9

best thing to do. is to go do your own thing. go kick it with your friends. keep yourself company. meet a new guy. etc. basically. just remove things and do things that WON'T make you think of him.

Answer 10

then you need to keep your lil mind busy find your self a new guy friend