I am 12 years old,and I keep my room clean,do my homework,practice my basketball plays,and I am nice to everyone.Is this immature? People at my school say I am immature,am I? I am also considered fat,and I am 5'5,and I weigh 125 pounds.I feel like crap! Help me?
2007-01-16 09:28:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
the fact that you constructed this question in a mature manner tells me this... immature... no.
Insecure... maybe a little. But who isnt at that age. 5'5' and 125 is not fat and you should not think that way. Look into what they are doing to models... it is actually not good to be that skinny. It has ruined the way that girls especially your age look at themselves.
If anything, the people/kids that are saying these thing probably have self esteme issues themselves. Bully's usua;;y do have some sort of esteme or security issues.
Keep your head up and worry about grades more than friends in high school. Chances are, most of your friends or yourself will move anyway after high school anyway... so, life really begins after high school unless you go to college (which you should) then you can just party and have fun and start life after that.
Wow... sorry for the rant, but kids these days are lame (i'm 31 so I can say that).
Story: There was this girl (about 14) and her father and they were walking through a parking lot and the girl say's "... thats a cheap car" to a $30,000 car. That is sickening!!!!!
Good Luck and again...Keep your head up!
2007-01-16 09:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by 1opinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your actions seem very mature for your age. However, I don't know anything about your attitudes toward life, friendship, guys, goals for the future ... so I, or anyone else that doesn't know you, couldn't say for sure. I can say, though, that people who normally have immature attitudes generally show it through their actions ... and since your actions don't indicate immaturity, my best guess is that your words wouldn't either.
You are NOT fat. Don't believe anyone when they tell you that you are. 125 lbs is right on target for your height. Learn now not to put much stock in others' opinions of you. I agree with the person above who stated that they're probably saying these things out of jealousy. You seem very sweet and goal-oriented, stay this way and you'll have a bright future ahead of you. Don't let others bring you down!
2007-01-16 09:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not fat, but you do have some maturing to do if you let what other children say affect you. At 12 years old, you aren't expected to be a mature adult....so if someone says you are immature, it's a fairly accurate description and not a judgement on you. Continue to do what you know to be right, as you age you will gain maturity.
2007-01-16 09:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, who considers you fat????? 5'5" and 125 is not even close to fat, sister. I think you are the mature one and your friends are just jealous.
2007-01-16 09:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Squirrel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not immature your actually nice! People are jerks and you can't take what they all say seriously and 5'5 and 125lbs is healthy.
2007-01-16 09:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by zombie_man_31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds really mature to me. idk?
2007-01-16 09:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by THE ALMOST 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋