I don't know why, but lately I'v been thinking too much about life-and my future...I want to get this man out of my head-because I know I don't have feelings for him that way...but lately...ever since I became buddies with him via myspace I can't get him out of my head...I knew him before I added him-just didn't want to add him-might get attached. I guess I want to get to know hias a friend, but I want him to make the first move, so he won't think I like him that way-I did love him...I have no feelings for him like that now. I also know, I can just let nature take it's course-to be frank I can live without his compnay-but wtf...I just am afraid to check my messages, cuz I secretly wish it was him...and I also know it won't be unless I go for it-but I'm not ready....as a friend to make the frienship move 1st. I'm so confused and fustrated. Please give me some love. ..and advice.
2007-01-16 08:57:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
im going through the same thing...my gf cheated on me, and there is this friend of mine that i recently noticed was just so great and always there for me, but im not ready...so what i did was talk to her about it...tell the truth, and just be like 'i think im falling for you but im not ready to be serious' or whatever best fits your situation....it worked, my friend completely understood and actualy said she was falling for me too...and she assured me that nature would take its course and everything would work out nicely...just believe in yourself girl!
2007-01-16 09:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by NICKY J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's your love: (((((HUG)))))
As for the advice, maybe just sitting on it and thinking about it rationally will help you decide what to do. I personally don't have problems with making the first move. Somebody has to.
2007-01-16 17:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋