i need to know some info before i become "active"?

Question

does it hurt is it enjoyable what kind of protection should i use how would we start

Answer 1

Talk with your mother. How old are you??

Answer 2

First you should be old enough that you shouldn't worry about your parents having to pay for a baby if you should become pregnant. Because remember that is always a possibility protection or not. Yes it hurts, no it's not enjoyable the first few times and even some after that because it hurts. You should just let the mood take you in. You will know when you are ready. I would get on the pill and use a condom. You can never be too safe.

Answer 3

Before you become active ask yourself "do I love this person", "is he the one to lose my virginity to". Once you lose it you can't take it back. That said, it will hurt the first time and it can be enjoyable with the right person. Definitely use a condom and you should probably go on the pill because condoms are only 85% effective, you don't want to give up your plans for an unwanted pregnancy. Also, talk to your mom, older sister or someone you trust before you take this important step. All women should remember this person is entering your body. Is he the one?

Answer 4

I've been with three virgins in my life and each one of them experienced pain at first (I'm no stud but not small either) but it was a fleeting pain and they usually experienced bleeding the first few times. As long as you expect it, it won't be too bad.

As for what protection, if you're not on the pill then he has to be the one to make the protection his game. A condom is OK but there are those of us that can't use them. My first one (and the first time for me and her) the condom broke in side. Luckily I didn't trust the condom and pulled out before anything could happen.

As for how you should start, that's all on your shoulders. Do what comes natural, you have many years to experiment and try new things. Take it slowly, you'll get the hang of it so quick it will make your head swim.

Answer 5

I have no idea how old you guys are. But i hope you are old enough to play an adult game, if you feel that you are ready. make sure that you have some sort of birth controll and he also has some ( condom)...it might hurt real bad or it may not it all depends on the couple..and it will only be enjoyable if you have a good partner!

Answer 6

before u become "active" make sure its what YOU both want. you never get the very first time back. does it hurt, i wont lie, every girl is different but yes it is uncomfortable the first time. yes it becomes enjoyable. sometime the first time is a little awkward don't worry though it gets better. its best to me "double protected" meaning get on the pill and use a condom. if you cant get the pill make sure you use a condom every time. latex works for most but make sure to look and see which type is right for both of you. honey trust me, just go with it, relax and enjoy.

Answer 7

OK anyone who said don't do it!! HELL YA!! But I want to add, how old are you? Do you have a BF? Are you in Love? No i think so answers!! Are you doing this because everyone else is? If this is a Maybe or YES DON"T DO IT!! YOU WILL REGRET THIS LATER IN LIFE. ALWAYS use protection, I would suggest a condom and remember, you CAN get pregnant your FIRST TIME!! DO NOT EVER use the "pull out method" And if you can't talk to your mom, an older sister or someone OLDER that you trust, don't do it!!!!

Answer 8

Well sweetie, by the tone of your question you seem very young. When you're young you seem to fall in love every five minutes. Don't be in such a hurry to give away something so precious, and keep in mind that it is something that you cannot get back. A gift that you shouldn't give away to anybody but you're husband. Because he loved you enough to want you to be his forever. Unless the person you're with is willing to do that..then it's not love sweetie. You're young hold on to your innocence don't rush into this. I'm sure anyone on here will tell you that they wish they would have waited. Losing your virginity is about so much more.....the urges you'll start to have, your mentality, your outlook on life will change. Something that you may not be ready for. From a virgins point of view, I'm older than you and I don't think I'm ready for it, but I respect myself enough not to want to just give it to any Tom, Dick, or Harry anyway. Not to mention you're opening yourself to a lot of new things. Unless you're ready and willing to bring a child into this world and be the mother that it needs, than you do not need to be having sex. Sometimes, it does only take one time. Now after you've thought about all the terms and you have agreed, and you still want to do it...talk to your parents. Preferrably you're mom or if you have any siblings go to them....or go to someone you trust that is active and see what they say...don't go to your friends because you want to be prepared, and most of the time they don't know what they're talking about. Ask your school nurse...talk to someone before you make one of the most important decisions of your life...one that will change you forever. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 9

BE SAFE! Wear Condoms. Make sure he's gotten tested "if" he's been with other people.

There are STD's out there that are asympthomatic and carriers wouldn't know they have an STD.

Yes it will hurt a little bit and you will feel discomfort after, more like soreness, tender, little painful when you pee due to the lubrication /intercourse of the condom.
Make sure he is slow and patient with you.

BE SAFE!

Answer 10

it may hurt or feel strange the first time you do it. depends on how you feel. after you become a bit experienced in that department it becomes really enjoyable because you will know your "nice spot" is.

Answer 11

It may hurt the first time, but just for a few seconds and then it is fantastic, if you are with a good partner. Always practice safe sex.

I can't tell you how to start. Use your imagination and go with it.