It's been a year & a half since my boyfriend was murdered, & as soon as I move on, i get hurt. I've known him for four day, hes a truck driver & he flagged me down in traffic, just 2 ask4my number, he calls & seems so sweet & sincere. But the thing was I subconscious saw my boyfriend in him. It's like i picked up where my boyfriend & I left off with this new guy. Expectin him 2 be my boyfriend sorta,They were so similar, both of them were older guys (28, Im 19), & both of them were bad-boys turning good.So this four days moved VERY Fast, we were making out in his car & he gave me oral sex. Then he tried to have sex with me but I stopped him before he could penetrate. He didn't seem angry with me at all.He didn't really hit it & quit it, but why is he ignoring my calls? I call him & leave messages asking why he isn't speaking to me? I called and told him it messed up he won't man up to my calls, and I hoped he have a wonderful life and he wasn't that good @ oral sex anyway? Was I wrong?
2007-01-16 08:50:37 · 20 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt do anything 2 him, HE WENT DOWN ON ME!
2007-01-17 07:26:43 · update #1
You know what. I'd forget about this one and start again. It was your first time getting "back in the saddle again" so to speak and maybe you made some bad decisions based on emotion.
I'd stop contacting this person and set about finding someone else. Re assess yourself and try not to rush the next guy.
Better luck next time.
2007-01-16 08:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Venessa M 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't call you back after that message! You should have left it at why he isn't returning your calls and quit calling. I wouldn't think too much about it, you'll wonder your self into a comma trying to come up with possible reasons why. Rather, I would get my own life together, because obviously, you aren't over your boyfriend who passed (Sorry to hear, by the way). You went wrong by letting yourself move so quickly with the trucker guy because he reminded you of your past guy. I mean, I understand how it felt and how you miss him, but what if he was crazy? 4 days isn't a lot of time to get to know someone, let alone let him get in your panties, even if it was just oral. I'm not trying to be your mother, but you are obviously hurt, still (as would I) over the loss of your boyfriend, and vulnerable. Next time, make him wait a little longer, that way, you'll have a better idea of what his intentions are! Good luck, and God bless!
2007-01-16 09:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get faraway from him. Block him out of your telephone.tell him if he tries to the contact you, you'll coach the photo and texts on your mothers and fathers and they are going to press costs. He has sever themes of disrespect, stress fullness and aggression. you're on direction. Oral sex isn't something you want to do. and also you're not any further pretend. he's making an attempt to guilt you into something you've already stated you don't desire to do.do no longer disrespect your self by technique of allowing someone to emphasise sex on you. no matter if that is oral or no longer, it would want to by no ability be compelled or manipulated on you. good success. Now maggies husband, who's a father has study this, you should today tell your mothers and fathers of this. First, the transmission of a sexually photo photo to a 14 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous IS newborn pornagraphy and a offender offense (in many cases a criminal). 2d, the persevered coercion to finish a sexual act might want to probable be seen tried Sexual attack interior the jurisdiction that you stay in. Thirdly, YOUR mothers and fathers ought to tell: A- THE community POLICE branch, B- NOTIFY THE PRINICIPAL AT YOUR college. even as I agree total heartedly with my wifes comments, they don't bypass some distance adequate. This guy has the makings of adjusting into (or already is) a sexual predator. He and his mothers and fathers, he's a minor, also they are in charge, should be held criminally in charge for his moves. best of success to you, forget what your classmates might want to imagine, you're in common words stuck with them for 4 years. it is a decision that could want to impression something else of your existence.
2016-10-15 07:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, it seems to me that you need to think with your upper head. What can you expect of a guy that you allowed him to give you oral sex at the 4th day you both met? Do you think he did it 'cause he was falling in love or something? Give yourself some respect and strive for the good guys, which are not just want to sleep with you.
BTW, I am sorry about your loss!
2007-01-16 09:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for one he didn't get mad or doesn't answer your calls because he thought he was going to get a piece and you stopped him. Well he might think your a tease and will never get no where with you so why shoudl he bother. But at least now you know how he is. SO move on and don't worry. The hurt will go away soon. If you want to chat more just IM me anytime.
2007-01-16 08:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Next time don't call him. The worst thing on earth is someone bugging you. Also, skip the oral next time to when you're ready to return the favor.
2007-01-16 08:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by Know what you mean 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a truck driver and he flagged you down
2007-01-16 08:54:55
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You pissed him off because you gave him a case of the blue balls. He didn't act pissed because he didn't want to seem like an asshole. If you give him a little time, he'll eventually get over it and start answering your calls.
2007-01-16 08:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Your Maker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to move on. Come on, 4 days, you let him give you oral and stop from screwing. He wanted some action. he's moved on.
2007-01-16 12:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um... yes. You were wrong.to harrass him he is done you shoule be done too. The whole thing was wrong and you should me glad to get off lightly. PLEASE don't jump into anymore sexx etc with any more guys.
You need to grieve for the guy who died and not look for him in others like him.
2007-01-16 08:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋