and we have so much fun together we dated for a month
as soon as his ex found out he was with me she wants him back and will do anything to get him back.. she even followed us !!
she writes emails and pretends its not her.. and lies about tons of stuff!!
we still see eachother..
i dont think she knows
but she is ruining everything even to the point where his mom hates me!
what should i do??
2007-01-16 08:50:12 · 11 answers · asked by bbb h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he chose her over you and is still seeing you behind her back. I would move on sweetheart! If he's cheating on her with you then that's a good incline as to how he willa ct with you.
Good Luck! Be good to you!
'-)
2007-01-16 08:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such a tough and sticky situation! I've been in it before, and unfortuantely, it didn't end well. Typically, depending on the age of the boy & his relationship with his mother, he'll go with his mother's instincts (which totally sucks!) I guess the best advice is to wait it out if it's worth it. If it's meant to happen, then it will. Sometimes fate works in magical ways. I hope everything works out for the best!
2007-01-16 16:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back Off! It's up to him to choose you over her.
Continue to show whatever level of interest you have in him but LET HIM chase YOU. When his mother sees that he is serious about you, that will settle it for her.
His former wife is now his ex-wife for a reason. You do NOT want to get involved in that situation. Let him sort it out.
2007-01-16 16:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let her get to you. ignore her like she does not exist.
Focus on having fun with him. His mom will settle down after awhile. The ex has been filling her with lies about you and his mom does not even know you yet
2007-01-16 16:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like he is loving the attention two girls fighting over him cut him loose and find yourself a real man if he really likes you like you think he dose he will be the jealous one and fight to get you back if he doesn't hes not worth the heart ache (good luck)
2007-01-16 16:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does his mom hate you? Shouldn't his mom hate her? You need to ignore her childish behavior and continue to see this boy if you still like him.
2007-01-16 16:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw her!
if you like him and he likes you, then what is the problem? Tell him that you really love him and you don't want to lose him for some other girl
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-16 16:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should get out of there while u still can. but if u like ex girlfriend drama, u can stick it out
2007-01-16 16:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by andrewjumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her...don't stoop to her level...you're too good for those games!
Trust him and if he still wants to be with you cool, if he goes back to her...idiot!
2007-01-16 16:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about it..he is the reason..who he should find a solution
2007-01-16 16:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by rseny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋