It's been a year & a half since my boyfriend was murdered, & as soon as I move on, i get hurt. I've known him for four day, hes a truck driver & he flagged me down in traffic, just 2 ask4my number, he calls & seems so sweet & sincere. But the thing was I subconscious saw my boyfriend in him. It's like i picked up where my boyfriend & I left off with this new guy. Expectin him 2 be my boyfriend sorta,They were so similar, both of them were older guys (28, Im 19), & both of them were bad-boys turning good.So this four days moved VERY Fast, we were making out in his car & he gave me oral sex. Then he tried to have sex with me but I stopped him before he could penetrate. He didn't seem angry with me at all.He didn't really hit it & quit it, but why is he ignoring my calls? I call him & leave messages asking why he isn't speaking to me? I called and told him it messed up he won't man up to my calls, and I hoped he have a wonderful life and he wasn't that good @ oral sex anyway? Was I wrong?
2007-01-16 08:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL. It's funny that you left a message that he wasn't that good at oral sex anyway. But for your sake I think I'd leave it at that. You miss your deceased boyfriend and have admittedly projected his character traits onto a new guy that you really don't know anything about. It's probably a good thing that he's not trying to pursue you. He probably has secrets that you don't want to know about. Get on with your life. Do whatever is necessary to heal your broken heart and stay away from the trucker. You seem naive even for 19--I can't believe you allowed a trucker to flag you down in traffic and gave him your number. You are putting yourself at great risk. So my advice is to stop calling this guy and put as much distance between you as possible. You're obsessing.
2007-01-16 08:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No u werent wrong at all. He waz very much in the wrong when he didnt "man up" and answer your calls. In my opinion, you should not move that fast after the experiences you have been through. Next time I would take it slow and see how things are going, and definatly do not jump into anything you are unsure about.
2007-01-16 08:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you are messing around with some truck driver who flagged you down and you let him do that stuff after knowing him less than a week do you really expect him to call back ? he thought he could just get some and move on!
2007-01-16 08:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up as experience and move on. Sorry to hear about your boyfriends death. Take some time to find yourself before you jump into another relationship. Sounds like you need it.
2007-01-16 08:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by journeysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex is not a good way to tell if a man really cares for you. sticking his dick in your mouth is something that will satisfy hiim more than you. he was probably just sweet talking you to see your pus sy and that's it. forget him. he's a jerk.
2007-01-16 08:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by maya b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm good at it
2007-01-16 08:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by bilko_ca 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have bad breath.
2007-01-16 09:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋