is the love between me and my boyfriend for real??

Question

well im 18 and he is 19 were high school sweethearts been throught alot in our relationship suchs as (skin color, age, familys, and my health) me and him have been together for over a year and 8 months now and our relationship is somthing perfect, your thinking then why is she asking us, im asking becasue im hurting that people around us are saying how where not meant to be, and how because he goes to college 2 hours away and i go to college here he is cheating on me, but i know my man he would never do anything to hurt me, im hurting becasue i dont think im strong enough to keep takign the things people are saying to us, it hurts this is both of ours first REAL relationship (he has had two others but they only lasted a week, he has never kissed a girl till me, he and i were virgins,) ive dated before but never did anything with them, maybe a kiss on the cheek but nothing more, he is my everything and im hurting because when these people say this to us i get really upset (what can you)

i have had feelings for you for a long time, yet i did not know how to tell you from the moment me met in 9th grade i knew there was somthing in you that i would fall in love with, its not the way you look (even tho your so cute), its not the way your built (even tho your body is amazing), its not even your personality (even tho you have an amazing one) but its the way you made me feel when you would talk to me, the way you would say somthing funny and be waiting to see me smile, the way you would always look at me to see if i was looking at you, i did i fell in love with you the first time i laid my eyes on you, and thats no joke, if you dont believe me ask your mom (omg that day i told her i was going to marry you one day) i knew deep down inside we were ment to be togher, and when we stopped talking shomore year it crushed me i was so sad that we never talked i mean there was a few hi, bye, hey, but nothing like we had freshman year, but then came jurnior year the year you changed

changed my life, when you would walk down the halls, you would say hey babe, and stop at my locker and see how i was doing, you would come to my locker after school to say bye, and give me a hug, we were just friends nothing more, but i felt so close to you and when you asked me out my heart melted just hearing you say you wanted to be with me made my day, when we went to the wave pool that one day together and we were standing by thoses lil houses and me and you said we were going to live in this house the blue one, just me nd you, and when i heard you say that i smiled, and we now have been dating for a year and four months and let me tell you i wouldnt have it any other way, your amazing i love everything about you, the way you smile (when we see eachother for the first time in weeks), the way you know just what to say to make me laught, the way you talk to me when im sad or upset, how you say i love you, i love that you always say later because you know how bye sounds, your the

your the only one for me baby, we love the same things, we are just perfect together i love you baby and i dont ever want to lose you, i love how we can talk about marriage and you always say how your not joking, how were going to have two big dogs, and nice house and you want 4 kids, how we want boys so they can be like you, how that day we sat at the park and talked about us getting married, and having kids, and picking what our kids names are going to be, baby i love you

this is how i feel about him, this is the note i sent to him

Answer 1

your in love and that is a great feeling, congrats keep him he seems really kind and loves you too

Answer 2

First, you have to remember that your friends and family (I assume these are the people telling you these things) care about you and they don't want to see you get hurt. That's why they say these things - it's to protect you, not hurt you. Unfortunately, I've been in your position and it never changes how it makes you feel.

As far as this being "true love," only time will tell. You're both still young yet. You both need to finish school yet before you make any life altering decisions (i.e. getting married). Give yourselves time to finish growing up. If it's meant to be, I promise you, you won't feel the need to come back on here and ask if this is love...you'll just know!

Answer 3

Dont let people determine your destiny ... people will always talk no matter how good of a relationship you have with someon. The only reason i would tell you to be supicious is if he does something that will lead you to think that way. Like hiding his phone .. leaving the room when he talks on the phone .. .etc.

Answer 4

SIXTEEN:

When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.


FIFTEEN:

You read their Texts and Ims Over and over again.



FOURTEEN:

You walk really slow when you're with them.



THIRTEEN:

You feel shy whenever they're around.



ELEVEN:

When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.



TEN:

You smile when you hear their voice.



NINE:

When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.



EIGHT:

You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.



SEVEN:

They're all you think about.



SIX:

You get high just from their scent.



FIVE:

You relize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.



FOUR:

You would do anything for them, just to see them.



THREE:

While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.



TWO:

You were so busy thinking about that person, you didnt notice number twelve was missing



ONE:

You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.


NOW MAKE A WISH. YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO.......




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Answer 5

It's love however the query is are you men supposed to be in combination. You will simplest recognise that through relocating in with him. Don't calm down till you have got replied this main query!

Answer 6

It may be for real but it may also not last as this the first relationship and both of you have a lot to learn about life yet.

Answer 7

Why are you listening to what every one else is saying? Ignore them! If you and your bf are happy, then that's the thing that matters - you shouldn't get stuck on people who bring you down.

Answer 8

How can anyone but you possibly know the answer to that question?
Why do you even care what other peoples opinions are reguarding your feelings for your boyfriend?
They are just opinions and not real answers.
You are never going to be able to please everyone so you have to figure out the answer to that question for yourself.

Answer 9

do not let people get to like this ...they're only jealous!!! when they come up to you do not listen...as soon as they open their mouths shut them up tell them to keep all the junk to themselves you 'd rather not know and if its true when you find out yourself ..you will deal with it then... be mindful too that you are not telling them too much about your business....they could be using that to strive off of.

Answer 10

well in this kind of situation people could be wrong or right. If i was you i would go and find out if it was not like what they said , nothing would hurt me.

Answer 11

uhh, people around you don't determin the love between you two. If you both love eachother passionately, then nothing is wrong.