my bf who i talk to on the phone and i only see him one a week but i didnt see him last week and i wont see him this week or next week cause hes doing revsion for hes exams,hes getting way to stressed out and is taking it out on me and im not saying anythink wrong.i realy love him and i know hes getting so stressed out but i dont like the idear of him having ago at me.what do i do
2007-01-16 08:03:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him! u deserve better
2007-01-16 08:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of advice is dumping him? that kind of stupid advice will leave you with a world record of relationships and you'll die alone and unhappy.
We all take things out on others when we're stressed, I know I used to with my parents sometimes and my girlfriend as pretty bad when she was doing her exams. But it's not as if he's hurling abuse or beating you up right? try telling him that he shouldn't be that way with you and maybe he will apologize. Or just stay out of his way until the exams are done..
2007-01-16 16:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dumping him is not the answer... Theres obviously too many young imature people answering questions on here.
Its very important that you give him the space he needs for exams. Its his future and he needs to do well.
Be mature about it and let him know that you'll give him some space... Tell him that if he needs any help, just to call you.
I'm sure he will appreciate it... Hell, he can make it up to you later :o)
2007-01-16 16:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will always be stressed out, after the exams it'll be for a job, or for Uni, or something. Depends really how much you are willing to give up for him. You need to be very patient with this sort of bloke.
2007-01-16 16:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by floppity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relationships like your are hard anyway.
only having contact by phone is really hard, are you sure you really love him?
maybe it's time to re-evaluate your relationship.
write an list of advantages and disadvantages to see if your doing the right thing.
if it really is love then he will chill after his exams.
al that you can do is be supportive and understanding but tell him you wont tolerate verbal abuse when you've done nothing wrong
good luck xx
2007-01-16 16:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is stressed out, all he may need is support. Does he get it from his family ?
You could be the one to offer support and help.
Why not text him, saying if he needs any help or advice, get in touch with you.
Try not to phone him, just use text messages.
This is a difficult question to answer, but please support your boyfriend.
2007-01-16 16:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dr David 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand him first of his situations but if he is not caring your relationship,think thousand times and decides the best happiness for you
2007-01-16 16:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by speedmaztyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him,plenty more hun!
2007-01-16 16:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋