Help man troubles!!?

Question

I'm 22 and still having bad man troubles!
I recently spent the weekend with the most fab bloke who's a friend of a friend from her home town, we went out and had a few drinks watched a football match and during half time he kissed me on the lips to which I was slightly dumbfounded and he said he liked me, my mother then called and he asked to talk to her so I let him talk to her for a bit. After the football we met up with some of his friends who he introduced me to and we went for a drink the whole time he held my hand and made sure I was ok. We then spent the night at his watching movies and then some more kissing. I went back home the next day and we talked a little on msn and seemed ok, I then told him I wanted him and did he want me but in a non sexual way I meant as in g.friend and he said would have to see how it worked out between now and the next time we see each other, he said that he was interested cuz wouldnt have bothered kissing me...HELP what's this mean

ok so this is all varied and good advice BUT how am I to act when on msn and when he calls or texts me??

Answer 1

you will never get as straight yes or no answer off a bloke about anything unless he is talking about someone else. he wants to see how things go with you go out some more do fun things dating so to speak before he starts introducing you as his g/friend. but dont ask him again what is happening between you just let things run there course for a bit see how it pans out. and just be your normal self when you see him/msn/text ect as your trying to get this guy thinking your potential g/frind material

Answer 2

This sounds like a serious issue. It could be something simple like a lot of work pressure on at the moment or he could simply be tired and in need of some rest. I know one person has said that it could be that he is having an affair, this is possible but in my experience when someone is having an affair they become more loving to there partner to cover up there own guilt. I think the best thing that you could do would be to sit down and talk to him, explain why how you are feeling and try to sort out together what your problems are and how you can fix them. you will find that is the best way to deal with these issues. Once you have everything worked out set aside an evening which you will let him think is a night on the town when in really what you will be doing is setting up a sexy evening to tempt him back to bed. wear something that you know will drive him wild and have a few bottles of wine / drinks ready and have the entire evening showing him what he has been missing.

Answer 3

well of course he's interested in you. he seems to like you a lot but you should not have asked about being his girl so quickly. i think he means that he wants to take time to get to know you a bit better before making anything official! good luck

Answer 4

You are still young time is on your side,there not much you can do just give him time and all the kissing in the world the sexual feeling will just come on its on failure to that email me.

Answer 5

Sounds like he wants to see if there's anything there besides the physical attraction. Don't worry about it (I know that's saying a lot). Take the time to get to know and him and let him get to know you. It'll only help your relationship grow stronger.

Answer 6

Before you make him a boyfriend get to know him and by the way I know your young but you can get hep c from kissing that would lead to death so be careful for what you wish for

Answer 7

join the club

Answer 8

he has someone else on the side and wants to keep you waiting so if nothing better happens then you can shag until then I would drop kick his bum and get a man who respects you period.

Answer 9

It means you should start to grow up a bit.

Answer 10

bad man troubles?

I don't think so - sounds like he's being really nice.

Try relaxing a bit.