Well i been with this guy for 11 mouths almost 1 year and he is 16 years old and he is in jeal right now and i dont know if i should leave him or be with min until he gets out...his going 2 be there for almost 1 year....but i really do love him alot and i always going to be there for him but i need a advice....WHAT SHOULD I DO????
2007-01-16 07:49:24 · 21 answers · asked by Laila M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too young to know what true love is. When he gets out in a year you will be a totally different person, more grown up. You will lose a year of your life waiting on this guy to come home to you...and then you don't even know what jail will have done to him. I say break it off for now. And when he gets out see how things go. You shouldn't have to be punished for his mistakes and that is what you will do to yourself if you wait for him to get out.
You are young...enjoy your life now! You will have responsibilities to worry about soon enough.
2007-01-16 08:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Say What? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. He's not going to be the same when he gets out. He will have a year of being some guy's girlfriend while he's in. Of all the people I've ever met that has gone to jail, not one of them have been right in the head when they got out not to mention the other end.
Unless you can handle it, it's really best if you slowly break it off over the next year and find someone that will not be in the position to go to jail.
2007-01-16 16:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he got into trouble for something bad or if he is a bad person then don't be with him. But if you really love him then do what you think is right. What your heart tells you to do. Just be careful. Don't get into trouble for this guy unless it is worth it. Good Luck.
2007-01-16 15:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u really love him then u should stay by his side and wait for him.by the way 16 years old and already in jail?
2007-01-16 15:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by kookoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really love the guy and been with him for almost a year i say stay with him. and when he gets out get back together with him. don't be with anyother guys when he is in jail that is consider cheating.
2007-01-16 15:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young with a future ahead of you... go to school, go to college and get yourself a career... worry about you!!! don't worry about men!! men come and go... don't get pregnant!!!!!!!!! sweety you have to realize that you could do so much better... i understand you love him, but you have to look at the bigger picture he's in jail and you could do better... get a good career so that you can do whatever you want and not depend on no man... the world has so much to offer don't forget that.... GOD BLESS and take care, i hope you can make the right decision..........................
2007-01-16 16:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by hazel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, you are to young to sit around and wait for someone who is in jail. You have no business even hanging around that kind of person at your age. Move on girl.
2007-01-16 15:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was a bad influence on you or treated you badly.... or even if you have for some reason considered leaving him recently, this would be a good time to do it.
2007-01-16 15:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young leave his ***. If he is in jail now at the age of 16 he is a loser
2007-01-16 15:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by whynot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him a prison shank in his cake so he can shank a gaurd and break out and be with you. Then you can smoke crack, steal, and be criminals together. OR you can stop being a dumb girl and find someone who doesn't like pinstripe suits.
2007-01-16 15:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by zetser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋