met this lady ttwo years ago and been living with her ever since.. she loves me and vice versa. she's 86 but looks extremely good for her age.. she's very immobile and kind.. she basically treats me like her own! i'm 26! the only problem ihave with her is that she never likes the guys i'm interested in for whatever reasons.. i am now dating a very nice guy who treats me well and yet she makes little snubbish remarks about him... like i wonder why a strong, successful man like that isn't married and many other annoying comments... anyway, yesterday he took me to a movie and asked me if i wanted to accompany him for a weekend in Florida and i said yes! when i told the lady i may be going to florida.. her face turned sour and before i finished she yelled NOOOOO! then she started asking me if i was going to sleep with him and all these other annoying questions! she always says i should find someone who could do things for me and now that i've found she can't stand it! i mean the guy is educated and owns property and is respectful towards me... so whats her problem.. i'm beginning to feel that she's not happy for me.. what do u think? how should i keep her from prying?
2007-01-16 07:48:23 · 1 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know for certain but it sounds like she is envious and jealous of you. As well she may fear losing you as a roommate if you find a guy that you might be happy to share your life with. Ask her bluntly what her problem is and also let her know that she is not your mom so you will go to Florida with whomever you choose and whenever you want. Your never going to get this settled without confronting her face to face and asking her why she is trying to be so controlling in your love live. Best of luck and have fun in Florida.
2007-01-16 07:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋