I especially like guys -- of all ages -- to answer this but I welcome all answers and thanks in advance.
So, I like this guy I know through work. He's 43 white professional male, single. I'm 35 and the same. We went out to shows twice in December 06. They were shows I had brought up. We enjoyed the shows and he took me to dinner afterwards both times. But he hasn't asked me out yet even though he has my cell number plus we walk together every day (and two other people-- four of us walk every day). So, is he going to make a move or what? If he doesn't ask me out for valentines does that mean he's not interested?
2007-01-16 07:40:42 · 14 answers · asked by supergirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry by "the same" meant single, white, professional. I am a FEMALE though!!!
2007-01-17 06:12:15 · update #1
Sounds like you both had fun on those dates. Being that he still hasnt asked you out since December there is a big chance that he might have changed his mind or something. I think it is pretty fair to say that if he doesnt ask you out for Valentin's Day that he isnt interested. Then you can move on to a guy that is more deserving of you.
2007-01-16 07:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
valentines is a very "iffy" situation. he might actually like you and want to ask you out, but is afraid of being rejected on valentines day. you however, are looking at it from a different side. Give it time, if he's not interested, it will become apparent after a while, if he is, then he'll eventually ask you out.
2007-01-16 07:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Trombone_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he is not interested in you or he is gay or he wants to remain a bachelor. You dont need Valentines day to send flowers or ask you out. But maybe you wanna just wait and see. Patients might pay.
2007-01-16 07:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by saran_d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry not a guy, but Supergirl, you're 35 and asking this? Whoa! Maybe he wants just to be friends or keep it a professional level.
2007-01-16 07:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is old enough to be upfront with you. If he wanted to date you then I'm sure he would have told you by now. You have been out with him twice now and he hasn't called you to ask you out on a date. There is nothing going on in his head that concerns you. You would be best to just move on. However, if you need to hear this directly from him please feel free to ask him. Good luck.
2007-01-16 07:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just may not be "that in to you"..as the saying now-a-days goes...
I will repeat my most favorite mantra: 'Men always want what they think they cannot have'....behave that way, and he'll come a run'n!
2007-01-16 07:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by Toots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he just got out of a relationship he may not be ready for one yet...he maybe one of those guys that like to take their time..if he calls you and walks with you ....he likes you ....but he may just want to make sure its right for him...just think he maybe one of those guys that think with his head on his shoulders and not the one in his pants.......
2007-01-16 07:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by linifer74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I think valentine's day is a load of crap and if he needs a special occasion to ask your hotness out... he's not that interested! Find someone who is cause you deserve it!
2007-01-16 07:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by coniferc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay hun. He is interested in you. Just wait. Don't be desperate.
2007-01-16 07:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by noting could b r e a k us apart 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally on your side.
2007-01-16 07:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by hurt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋