Well having turned 22 I thought figuring men would be easier from now on!! So here's the problem......
I recently spent the weekend with the most fab bloke who's a friend of a friend from her home town, we went out and had a few drinks watched a football match and during half time he kissed me on the lips to which I was slightly dumbfounded and he said he liked me, my mother then called and he asked to talk to her so I let him talk to her for a bit. After the football we met up with some of his friends who he introduced me to and we went for a drink the whole time he held my hand and made sure I was ok. We then spent the night at his watching movies and then some more kissing. I went back home the next day and we talked a little on msn and seemed ok, I then told him I wanted him and did he want me and he said would have to see how it worked out between now and the next time we see each other, he said that he was interested cuz wouldnt have bothered kissing me...HELP what's this mean
2007-01-16 07:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok when I said I wanted him I meant in a non sexual way it was in a I like him a lot and would like to have him to myself.....we've known each other 8 months and I have always liked him and he's said he likes me that's why I am confused!!
2007-01-16 07:50:34 · update #1
all good and varied advice but how should I act then when on msn, or if he phone or texts me???
2007-01-16 08:18:15 · update #2
Take it easy, don't make more out of this than what really happen guys like to go a little slow, we woman get so work up and start daydreaming that he the one. NO NO NO just let things happen on there own time. Remember you need to play hard to get, take your time. If you are to eager then he knows he has you right where he want you, and that is by the phone. Remeber don't answer the phone on the first ring, don't answer his email for a day. When he calls play it cool yes you enjoy the kissing and all. Good luck
2007-01-16 07:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean he is in a relationship that he is not sure how to end, It could also mean that he is very busy at work right now and would like to get together when it slows down so he can focus on you, or it could be that you pushed a little too far by saying you wanted him, believe it or not some guys don't want a girl that is too eager to get in the sack....some of us like the pursuit... :) call him and ask, he'll probably tell you (or drop him an e-mail...then he could answer it in his own time and way
2007-01-16 07:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by kerfitz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, well, you pounced on him a bit when you told him you wanted him. A man likes to do the hunting, not be the hunted. Yes, there were kisses and over time they would build up to a deeper relationship, but to pounce like this possibly felt too heavy too soon for him.
Back off a little, let the relationship progress at it's own rate, if you try to rush things, that is when they start to go wrong
2007-01-16 07:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Smurf22 it sounds like he may just be a gentleman and trying to get to know you before committing himself. I haven't any idea of why he was acting the way he was (but figure that there was probably some alcohol involved) and that he is reconsidering how he was the way he was. Give it some time and get to know each other better before trying to commit yourself to this relationship.
2007-01-16 07:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you matched pretty good together ,he just needs that time to answer ,who knows why but I would give him the chance to decide ,He must be a thinker someone very careful with his heart .Good luck to you .I believe he will ask you out again .
2007-01-16 08:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very similar thing happen a few weeks ago. I backed off, and stopped calling him, and decided that if he is interested he will call me. Guess what, no call from him. Oh well, his loss! I would say that yes, actions speak louder than words here. Trust your gut feeling on this one.
2016-05-25 02:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a player who wants to get into your pants. If that's O.K. with you then go for it but be careful. I think you're gonna end up up hurt.
2007-01-16 07:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he seems to flirt with you
and he ain't serious about you....
i guess he cares a s*** about you
and just wanna use you for his pleasure
i guess you should forget him
and move on in your life
2007-01-18 16:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by insane killer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh, he obviously likes you!! Why are being so self conscious about the situation? Only time will tell though what will actually happen in the longrun.....
2007-01-16 07:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is exploting u dear. ask him to lay off,
2007-01-16 07:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋