I really like this guy. We went on a few dates and he told me he hasn't been in anything solid since college. I know that should set something off, but I don't know what to do. I really find him attractive and we get along pretty well. We like similiar stuff and I enjoy his company! What should I do to make him want to just be with me? My friends told me to lay low around him for a bit and let him miss me? I am 25, he's 27. I am really over heartbreaks now. I don't want to hurt anymore. I am a good girl. I was told I am funny. Educated, have a good career and I can cook! Thing is I hate cleaning! hahaha.. What should I do with this guy? He has girls around him all the time! I don't know what to do I just want him to be with me and me only! Help!
2007-01-16 07:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered your own question. He has a girls around him all the time. He is a player and isn't looking for a serious relationship. Move on. and one day you will find a man who wants the qualities you have to offer. YOu may be coming across to serious and clingy.
You are still young. Today, kids are getting married much later.
You are only 25!
Slow down and date other guys but not for a serious relationship. Remember when you do get into a serious relationship and get married you will be married to this man for ever! So whats the hurry.?
2007-01-16 07:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by ACME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you jealous that he has girls around him all the time. If it bugs you. I dont think he will change very much over the course of time. I would listen to your friend and lay low for a while. Maybe go on a date or two. Just so that you are not driving your self crazy think, if he is thinking of you, what he is doing etc.. Men are strange beings. I would wait a little while before you tell him how you fill.
2007-01-16 15:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by reina a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't too educated. This guy doesn't want to just date you. He is making that clear by hanging out with alot of other girls. You can't make him like you, this is something he will have to do willingly. My advice to you is to move on and find a man who wants to be with only you. The guy you are interested in sounds like he loves the attention from the girls and he's not ready to give that up too soon. Good luck.
2007-01-16 15:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the HUNTER INSTINCT coming out: we guys are all ways looking for something new out there: THAT IS OUR NATURE. We really have to be nuts about someone to completely committee to them : Then some girls do the same thing. No it is not right, but that is the way it is, I'm afraid!
2007-01-16 15:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. We'll be watching to see what answers come up.
2007-01-16 15:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on a date and take it from there.
2007-01-16 15:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋