my best friend got a note and wrote don't tell michael but i have a crush on u and put it in her window what i have been best friends with him since the 6th grade and i have trusted him till this minute and i love my girlfriend to death i can say that i love her without a dought i have never felt this way about a girl b4 and she defended him and said that he won't try anything don't b mad at him he didn't betray u i don't like him. also this is what makes it worse they live next door to each other. what should i do?
2007-01-16 07:31:04 · 17 answers · asked by michael_3579 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe as you guys are growing up you are not the friends you used to be, same goes for a young relationships, time to communicate with your girl and find out how she feels about you guys and how she feels about him and what the future looks like, you are young, it may hurt now but get out there and meet others, create more experiences in life
2007-01-16 07:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friend likes or even better loves your girlfriend doesn't mean anything more than talking and complementing your girlfriend is at hand. Don't you want your best friend to think you have the best girlfriend around. She's probably a great girl and he just wanted to let her know that he thinks she is a good girl that you both have the pleasure of knowing. My brother always liked my girlfriend and tried hitting on them. It made me chuckle that he tried but could never get my girls.
2007-01-16 09:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds if she was the one that told you then you have nothing to worry about. She is defending him only because she does not want to be the one to come between your and his friendship. If she loves you no matter if he lives next door she will be loyal to you. She is probably a great girl and your friend admires her for that. There will be alot of guys interested in her, but if she loves you then you need not worry. Show her you trust her.
2007-01-16 07:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the starting up I even ought to talk about that you're thirteen! He should not be holding such issues as that to you and also you should have have adequate self understand to inform him that you're literally not likely to grant him what he needs. He appears like a administration freak and is chuffed to bully women folk. he's per chance all talk about his sexual conquests because maximum women your age are literally not waiting for sex. do not enable him attempt to rigidity you into some thing. you're literally not a foul pal, you've only made a foul selection by flirting with this guy. Your pal is a worse pal than you're because she isn't listening to you once you tell her what is going on. you'll only ought to inform her you could't be round her even as she's with this guy and then make NO contact by any ability with him. no count number how a lot he tries to intimidate you, you should placed on a courageous face. there is no longer some thing ideal about him and with any success you'll study a thanks to keep in mind that. i understand a courting looks fantastic at your age yet there is no favor to hurry issues because you'll in reality seem back and experience sorry about it. You stated this guy is a participant your self. develop your self-esteem by making new pals and only bypass on with existence. it truly is a few distance too massive a difficulty for someone your age.
2016-11-24 21:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust her to make the right decision. I'd confront my friend and ask why he'd do something like that. The best thing for him to do would have been to tell you. She's just trying to save YOU and your friends friendship. She doesn't want to be the cause of your falling out. She's not defending him. She's defending your friendship. She obviously knows how much he means to you. And btw, friends and girls are two stupid problems to have. Just relax and play it by ear.
2007-01-16 07:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop your friend. Unfortunately he was willing to tell her behind your back (not cool)and don't trust your girl. She likes the attention hes giving her and eventually it will become to much and they will act on it.
Infatuation is what starts cheating. So if you can handle one day finding out they did something I would keep my eyes open and drop my friend and tell my girl to do the same.
2007-01-16 07:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be the bigger man here. First you have to accept that your gf likes him too. Next step, you beat the absolute **** out of him. Pound him until he coughs up blood. He not only poached someone's girlfriend, he went after his BEST FRIEND'S girlfriend. This is the highest level of betrayal among men.
Finally, you suck it up and bring them together. You're all still young, and she's moving on from you. That's all you can do; wish them all happiness and leave.
2007-01-16 07:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe as your best friend he is testing your gf to see how true she is to you. Maybe he doesn't really like her at all, he just wants to see how faithful to you she is. If she did stray to him, then she wasn't ever a good gf to begin with and you do not need her. Confront him about it and ask him what is up and why did he give her that note.
2007-01-16 07:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she really doesnt like him and she just doesnt want to be the reason you lose a childhood freindship u know.. u shouldnt have to choose between ur girl and someone whos like a brother sit him down and talk to him and ask her to tell him that she dont like him that way and that she loves you.. worth a shot i guess :)
2007-01-16 07:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He let his cat out of the bag: now you know not to leave them alone togetter. But your real question is can you trust her; if you can do not worrie about it, if you can't trust her Run don't walk away!
2007-01-16 07:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋