the girl gives a boy $80 for shoes for his late christmas gift. he goes and spends it on his phone butt lies and says he bought his mother somethin. so he covers a lie with another one. get it? she forgives him. then he asks for more money so he can finish buying it when he gets his paycheck and he makes about a good $400 every 2 weeks butt hasnt bought the girl anything for christmas yet and she makes about $200 at the most every 2 weeks. the girl calls and he doesnt answer cause she wasnt able to bring him the $20 like she said she would. he tells another lie that day saying the phone he's been calling on all day is his partners phone. she gets her friend to call him and he answers "hello". the girl calls him 5 times and he doesnt answer neither one of her calls. what should she do?
2007-01-16 07:28:25 · 28 answers · asked by cheech 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You, I mean "she," should end the relationship. A relationship that already has this many lies and confusions already has warnings written all over it. If you gave him money for shoes, he should have used it on shoes. And as for not taking your phone calls, that is unacceptable. Why would you (she) put yourself (herself) through this? This guy obviously doesn't respect her and is immature. Relationships should be based on love and trust, not lies and money. I hope you find someone who treats you better next time around.
Good luck :)
2007-01-16 07:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Android 18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have GOT to be kidding right? Why do some girls need the answer slapped on their forehead so that they can see it every time they look in the mirror. I had no idea that there were this many females on our planet who cannot take a hint. Guys are not going to come out and say "Not Interested", especially when they are getting money from you!! Wake Up!!
2007-01-16 07:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by C'mon Get Happy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt get upset over the 80$ shoe thing (personally, I think 80$ is a lot for shoes...I spend 30$ on mine) as she gave him the money to get something for him, which technically means, the money is his. As far as the rest of the crap, she has a right to get upset and the feeling of being used. Dump his ***!
2007-01-16 07:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i hate to say this he is with you for the little things you can do for you. if you was his girlfriend he would have gotten you a gift even if you didn't get him one. that is if he cared for you a little bit. you sound like a nice person find a nice person to date, not one you have to spend your money on. i have a friendgirl that spent money on her bf. he did not care for her, he used her for the things he wanted and after he got what he wanted she had to run him down like you are doing. if you stop spending your money you will not hear from him. i think you know it all you young girls love to buy your man. it will never work, you guys don't get if you want to throw money away buy mom some flower every payday she really loves you and will be there for you always. i sure you can find something good to do with your money. try saving some to go on a trip this summer.
2007-01-16 07:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you better go back and do it again! Seems like a knee would hurt.. but if you get the kick just right it could be worse. I've never intentionally done so but it sounds like a pretty good idea to me. Good luck!
2016-05-25 02:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest Cheech,
Leave him,
or
confront him,
and stand up to him, confront him by printing out your / this question and hand it to him,
and GET OUT.
You're are way too tolerant and nice and he does not respect you, if you stand up he may respect you a bit but he bully you again later,
get out and learn or stay in and fight toe and nail (only fight figuratively though).
I think you need OUT of that sham,
He is a waste! I'm sorry, but I don't think you can stand up to him,
Leave with dignity, ask for something (respect) back.
Do it NOW!!!!!!
Honey!
2007-01-16 07:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Gem of Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, the girl is being used. The boy is taking Advantage of here. If the girl still wants to be the boys girlfriend the girl will have to talk to him.
2007-01-16 07:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by noting could b r e a k us apart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, she's absolutely wrong.. The best thing she can do is leave and forget that guy. She, like every girl in this world, deserves not just better but a real man.
2007-01-16 07:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The boy is using the girl for money and she should forget about him and never call again.
2007-01-16 07:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by So'sYerFace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's ignoring you...ditch the loser, sounds like he's only using you anyway. You can do better than him. Surely you're not the only girl he's using and lying to. Keep your self-respect and find a real man...sever all ties with this jerk...
2007-01-16 07:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋