cause you to have to hurt the person...I DO NOT WANT TO RE-live that terrible time...WILL GOD FORGIVE YOU??? in your heart you did not mean to hurt the person...
2007-01-16 07:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How about asking that person to forgive you.
2007-01-16 07:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by fab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand, I think. Yes, God will forgive you. You must also forgive yourself for what ever you did. That will be possible once you understand what led to what ever happened so you can understand how you can make it never happen again. That is your bedrock to healing. Once you know you have safe guarded something from happening again, you are a better person, so forgive yourself.
Now, the person you did something to is a whole other matter. People that have been wronged seldom understand, or care, what led up to them being wronged. As another answer stated, it starts with a sincere apology whether you think you will be forgiven or not. If you can get the person to listen to the apology and except that you are in turmoil and feel remorse for what happened, then you can explain to them what led up to it and the actions you took because you care about them and other people to make sure it never happens again.
Will they forgive and forget? I don't know. Once you have done all you can in the correct order in a sincere manner, you are done. Not forgiving you becomes their burden. People are human, humans are not perfect, thus the reason for the word apology being in the dictionary.
2007-01-16 15:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hurt someone, intentionally or not, it's up to you to do whatever you can to soothe his/her hurt. It may take some time and considerable effort on your part, but it will be worth it. It certainly beats living with the guilt.
I don't "do" guilt. If I've wronged someone, I'll do whatever it takes to make up for it. Then, if I've done everything I know I can, and they still do not forgive me, it is no longer my concern but theirs.
We all make choices, and we all must live with the consequences of those choices, and, sadly, sometimes that means not being forgiven by someone we've wronged. When that happens, all we can do is learn from the experience, move on, and work to never repeat our mistakes.
2007-01-16 15:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by MomBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by hurt? physically or emotionally? Really all you can do is apologise to the person and ask them to forgive you. Wheather they do or wheather they don't is on them, but if you know in your heart that you didn't mean to hurt the person then god knows also and he will not hold it against you, God is very forgiving even if people isn't
2007-01-16 19:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by kathy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that's what God do, He forgive us for hurting each other. but that don't make it right. the question is can that person forgive you or can you forgive yourself. i know it was bad because i can feel and see the hurt without being there. you need to try to make it right, i don't know how but i think this may be hurting you more than that person you hurt. good luck and i hope you can fix it for your sake.
2007-01-16 15:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hurt my ex girlfriend on new years eve. The break-up had been building for many months before. But I thought I'd try to work it out. Well I had to break up with her New years because I started feeling the heat from a certain girl. So I broke up with her not only so I wouldn't cheat on her but also because I had waited too long to end it. So I didn't mean to hurt her but it happened anyway. But I like to believe it was the lesser of two evils. So if you didn't mean to and as long as YOU know that, I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-01-16 15:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God will always forgive if you ask from the heart. Now ask that person to forgive you also.
2007-01-16 18:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I've always been told is that God will forgive you if you trully are sorry for what you did. If you have no other choice, or the choices given would have harmed more people than what your choice was, then don't worry. Please contact me if you want to talk to someone!
2007-01-16 15:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you did. If you can try to set some things right that involve that situation.
2007-01-16 19:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by Chel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god will forgive if if u have confessed and u realzed it was wrong.
2007-01-16 15:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by spiratic 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋