i might be pregnant. i told my boyfriend that the other day because i was really stressed out and he was wondering whats wrong. ever since i told him that, he's been avoiding me because he said the situation is too stressful and just talking to me stresses him out too much... but i want to talk to him when i get stressed because he makes me feel better. if it turns out that i am pregnant, he cant avoid me me just because its too stressful. he's not the type to pick up and run from responsibility, but i just dont know what to do right now. should i just give him some space til i find out? i wont know if i am or not until this weekend.
2007-01-16 07:10:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 19, he's 21.
2007-01-16 07:45:47 · update #1
Just relax!! The added stress could be making you late. Plus.... You should have waited till you knew for sure, instead you put the added pressure on him as well as yourself now. Girls SHOULD NEVER say anything about being pregnant until they KNOW FOR SURE! Because seriously, a guy is going to RUN AND HIDE if he is faced with possibly being a father. Its different when its a fact versus a possibility. Next time, if there is a next time... wait till you know. Too many girls use pregnancy to keep their guy in line, and guys RUN. I wouldnt be surprised if you find out that you arent, and you never hear from him again.
2007-01-16 07:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is this more stressful for him than it is for you? What a selfish individual.
Let well enough alone til you find out. He's made his position on the matter clear.
If you are you're pretty much stuck with him in your life for awhile. Don't expect much.
If you find you're not, you might want to reconsider involvement with this overgrown child. He's made it plain that he can't/won't be there for you.
I suppose there's hope that once the shock of it wears off, he might be OK. If you guys are really young, he may grow up quick.
It's possible. Not likely, but possible.
2007-01-16 15:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isnt very mature or responsible if he is avoiding you because of this. I really hope you aren't because it doesn't seem like he is going to be there for you. I could be wrong though. Give him a little space, don't lose contact though. Its only 4 more days
2007-01-16 15:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋