I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19, and we've been together for about one year. I'm the happiest I've ever been, I'm deeply in love with him, and I know he is the guy I want to spend my life with... It almost hurts to think about my future without him in it, he's my world. It's just, I've heard from so many people that I'm too young to know what I want (In that department), and I'm crazy for thinking that. I would in NO way even condiser marriage untill we're both a little older, and have stable jobs N all, but is it that bad to (already) know that I want to marry him one day?
2007-01-16 07:06:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol dont listen to them my friend because u r not young anymore u r 18 and u can judge by ur mind
i think this guy loves u and u loves him and u can marry dont worry about that and dont listen to those people
2007-01-16 07:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's bad. You sound like a pretty mature 18-year-old and good for you for wanting to wait to get married. However, here's the science of the situation: The human brain doesn't fully develop until it's 23-24 years old and things can change a lot during your early 20's (personality, maturity, likes, and dislikes). I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be in a hurry. If it's meant to be, then it will happen. Make sure you both are on the same page.
2007-01-16 15:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are succedss stories all over the world about people that meet their forever love and end up spending the a lifetime with them. So there is nothing wrong with being positive about your love. I am also glad to see that you are logical enough to realize not to rush into marriage until things are in place, job-wise etc.
I think many people, myself included are rather skeptical when we hear young people that are so sure they have found that ONE person...Odds are, they haven't They only think they have, but there is always that small chance that you have, so you need to see how it all plays out.... Good Luck!
2007-01-16 15:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mam people wud come up with their own ideas that this is not the rite age to fall in love and decide of ur marriage but we as individuals may never take a rite decision even at the age of 60 for the fact that our parents mite not be well aware of our happiness with the arranged marriage factor....if u think he is rite for u plz go ahead and make sure u both r committed to each other in the same way coz long term love might at times break but trust me true love never breaks
2007-01-16 15:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by sameer_billu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him do what u want but trust me i've been in this situation les tahn a year ago u may think that u want to marry him and be with him forever because he is all u know, but once u get a little older and realize all the things u are missing out on u will regret trapping urself down at such ayoung age. i'm not saying that you shouldn't be with him but u should also keep your options open.
2007-01-16 15:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse not , but like we say only time will tell what we really want. Keep your eyes open and if you are not in church get yourselves to church where you can get some direction from a minister or some type of counseling for young couples. I wish you the best.
2007-01-16 15:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by CHARLES H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not bad at all. Some people find their "soulmate" when they are 14 and eventually marry them are happy. Like you said you are not going out and getting married tomorrow. You just know how you feel and what could be bad about that.
2007-01-16 15:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by swanser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not at all bad to feel that way. It's not the same as running out and getting married. In a few years, you may feel differently, or you may still feel the same. But to feel this strongly is okay.
2007-01-16 15:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my husband when I was 18 (less than a year ago). Besides knowing we can't live with each other, it's easier to be able to see each other with him being in the military.
2007-01-16 15:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad. im 17 and my bf is 20 and we both know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. we're also waiting a few morw years before marriage. we dont want to rush. it doesnt matter the age. its just what you feel comfortable with. your heart with show you what to do.
2007-01-16 15:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋