I went out of town for a week and cheated on my boyfriend and i feel really bad but I also met some one that i really like and he really likes me to so what should i do i mean i dont see my boyfriend i havent seen him since christmas day
Please someone help me!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 07:02:28 · 26 answers · asked by Lil' Momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then you are a stupid ho!
2007-01-16 07:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
girl you need to take some time and take a good hard look at what you really want your boyfriend or the new guy. Are you just staying with your boyfriend for the comfort or because you love him? Why would you even let another guy approch you in that way if your truly happy with the man you had? If you decide to go with the current boyfriend you have to tell the truth and you have to let the outher guy go with no further contacts with the out of town guy.
2007-01-16 15:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by mess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what you need to do. It sounds like it's time to call it quits with your current boyfriend. You went out of town for a week and cheated on him and also met someone else you have an interest in. There doesn't seem to be much reason in staying in your current relationship.
If you don't see him too often, which apparently you don't, you probably don't even need to tell him you cheated. Just break it off and move on. Sounds like you'll be much happier that way.
2007-01-16 15:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by xcypher73x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to your own question. You like this guy and haven't seen your boyfriend since Christmas. Sounds like you need to get on the phone and end it with the "boyfriend". I would have ended the relationship before starting another one, but the damage is done. You just need to inform the "boyfriend". Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-16 15:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just feel sorry for yourself that's why you feel bad. Not because you feel bad for doing it.
Does he even know you did this?
And anyway what does it matter if you haven't seen him since christmas.
If you cheated on him and you think like that then the relationship was over along time ago girl.
End it with the poor guy just spare him the knowledge of knowing you cheated, that wouldn't be fair on him.
And are you even sure that this guy likes you, he could be attracted to you because you are NOT single.
I think end it with both of them actually.
Relationships that start with cheatingalways end with cheating.
Trust me.
xo.
2007-01-16 15:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Everybody makes mistakes. If you really love your boyfriend, it is best to move on and act like nothing happened. Telling him will create mistrust and bad feelings, plus if he is smart, he will leave you. But if you feel this will happen again, or if you constantly want to wander, cut it off (without spilling the beans about your indiscretion which would just hurt him). Continuing would be unfair to him and just postponing the enevitable. If it happens once in our life, it is a very hurtful mistake. But if you do it again, the first poster is right. You're a ho.
2007-01-16 15:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cosmopolite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mam here it wud not matter what wud be imp thats whether to tell ur boyfrend that u cheated him or not but whats important is whther ur happy with the new guy or the old guy coz at the end of the day its important that this cheat process which happened as per destiny shud not be continued so if u happy with the old guy tell him but again u wud break his trust and if u happy with the new guy can u guarantee that he wud not have this thought that u cheated ur old guy for the new guy and u wont cheat him if u get someone more intersted.....plz take wise decision and be with the person who wud understand u better
2007-01-16 15:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by sameer_billu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything anyone can tell you will only make you feel good temporarily!
You need to start viewing sex for what it is worth and not for what people have led you to believe.
Next time let your boyfriend know ahead of time what you plan to do and he will have to deal with it! Don't torment yourself every time you get horny and can't be near the one you love. Love the one you're with and don't regret it!
2007-01-16 15:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this...do you feel comfortable with your boyfriend or this other guy? Alright I'll tell you this you should tell your boyfriend what happened and how it happened and you act on the way he responds. But personally I think that if oyu loved your boyfriend in the first place it wouldn't have happened.
2007-01-16 15:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a grown-up.
Unless it's really serious [which it obviously isn't considering that you never see each other], I say to end it with your boyfriend and go with the second one you think really likes you.
2007-01-16 15:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got yourself a new boyfriend. So whats the problem just tell the other guy so they don't run into each other in your driveway.
2007-01-16 15:09:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋