We went on on our first date and ended up sleeping together. She wanted to hand out the next morning but I couldn't. When I called her weeks later (i know, i know) she was friendly to me, told me she she likes me, but wanted to know why I hadn't called in so long, etc.
But she stood me up for the plans I had made with her on the phone.
This was all a couple months ago. I want to call her and wish her a happy b-day and only that, no date no thing, but I am hesitant to because she stood me up.
Would it be a wussy thing to do?
2007-01-16 06:58:21 · 13 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all a wussy thing to do. Rather it is a mature and friendly thing to do regardless of the past. I'm sure that she would appreciate the fact that you remembered her birthday.
2007-01-16 07:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to understand that you blew it. She slept with you on the first date and you didn't call for like weeks. She has it in her head that you just wanted sex and nothing more. She stood you up to get back at you for not calling her. Nothing can be done to patch this up now. My advice to you is to move on. Try to get to know a girl before jumping into bed with them. This could save you a lot of time and grief. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-16 07:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm pretty sure she did that in purpose.... just call her if you really fell like it, talk to her about what happen, tell her the truth, she is thinking that you just used her and that's why she stood you up on the second date....work things out and next time do not have sex with a girl and don't call her the next day....
2007-01-16 07:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by aries 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
specific purely bypass away her on my own. She stood you up and hasnt called to describe her strikes in months. the two the intercourse exchange into undesirable or she felt such as you wouldnt seem at her the comparable considering which you adult males slept mutually particularly speedy. Who is acquainted with yet she hasnt tried to shed any easy on the undertaking so at this element does it fairly count huge sort? You knew whilst her birthday exchange into you ought to have called then possibly it exchange into communications subject concerns and not she is warding off you rather than telling you her genuine thoughts.
2016-10-31 06:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by dewulf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEave it go , she has moved on . If you apologized for not calling and you had a good reason and if she was not willing to accept the apology there is nothing more you can do , I guess by standing you up that was her revenge . If you want to say happy b day just send a simple card and leave it at that .
2007-01-16 07:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by el diablo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ummmm I think not. Don't call her. She stood you up cause you didn't call. It's a girl thing. Trust me. Calling her and wishing her a happy b-day would be, well.... sort of akward and kind of desperate. If she wanted to call you, I'm sure she would.
2007-01-16 07:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by SavingCats 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She stood you up because you didn't call her for weeks. She's probably moved on. If you are still interested in her, call and say Happy Birthday, if you aren't, don't, there's no reason to if ya'll only went on one date.
2007-01-16 07:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by miasayswhat 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think you should just leave it be. her standing you up was prob revenge for you not calling for so long after you SLEPT with her. thats such a mean thing to do, she prob felt used and that you were only after 1 thing so if i were you id leave it. she prob wouldnt appreciate the call.
2007-01-16 07:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Caz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have answered your own question. You didn't call her back after sleeping with her, so you are out of luck.
Bottom line.... learn from this, but move on.
2007-01-16 07:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Allan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you blew it by not calling the day after your "date". She is hurt and pissed. You used her in her eyes so just walk away. End of story.
2007-01-16 07:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋