Alright theres this girl that I'm really intrested into. but she's kind of weird. Sometimes shes happy to talk to me and hang out with me. Esp. at clubs and stuff where she does want to dance with me and whatnot. other times she ignores me and acts if I'm not even there. She even says bye to my friends with me standing there and she says nothing to me. It's pretty weird and I'm confused. any idea why?
2007-01-16 06:52:39 · 17 answers · asked by John K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've tried ignoring her, It was obvious she wanted to talk to me again. but once I started tot alk to her again she acted happy to see me for a few days and then it went back to where it was again.... Am i being used?
2007-01-16 07:08:05 · update #1
Oh and also thanks for the responses guys, i really have a heard time talking about these things. I even had a lot of trouble saying it over the god damn internet.
2007-01-16 07:09:52 · update #2
She's just being a girl i.e. difficult to understand and playing games with you. That's actually part of the fun. Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself.
2007-01-16 08:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by GypsyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I am a girl. So here is a little advice from one that knows:
Perhaps she has the same feelings for you, but is trying to mask them because she doesn't want you to find out. Most girls do that unless they are the gutsy type and then they will tell you outright that they like you, or they hate you or they don't want anything to do with you. I believe that the reason that she acts like she doesn't know you when she is around you and your friends is because she doesn't want them to know that she likes you. Girls get embarrassed very easily, especially when a boy is the source of teasing. So just try to talk to her and let her know that you are sensing something weird from her and you would like to know whats up. Just be simple about it.
2007-01-16 07:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by sk8rgurl_88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems she doesnt want to be seen with you, yes, she might be using you, I guess she sees you only as a friend, or maybe she likes one of your friends, thats why around them she pretends not to know you, or maybe she is just afraid that people may think that you are together. You should ask her, tell her that her attitude is unfair to you and let her tell you the reason, tell her how you feel about her and about the situation, and really, whatever the reason is, you should not allow someone, even when you like her, to treat you like that, you deserve something better, you should be with someone that will feel proud to be with you everywhere and not someone who hides you.
2007-01-16 07:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Helle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 06:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is what we call a user. She likes you when it's convienant. You have to understand that there are many people out there who are like that. As long as you put yourself out there, they will continue to use you. Sounds like the girl doesn't really like you at all. Sounds like she knows that you are interested in her. Perhaps you should find a nice girl that you won't have to question if she likes you or not. Thank you.
2007-01-16 07:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty strange i agree but 2 ways of considering it she either is to shy to confront you infront of everyone or youre not good enough for her to be with so i the best thing to do is take her aside and tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way or if youre just not good enough for her
2007-01-16 07:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by amethyst m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing hard to get or wants to keep you a secret around others.
2007-01-16 06:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you need to tell her how you feel and to make sure that wastting your time because it sounds like she is useing you to me or has no clue dud
2007-01-16 07:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows she can have you she's messing with your head, don't accept her manipulative behavior because chances are she's screwing with you. I'm willing to bet if you ignored her she'd be all over you trying to get your attention.
2007-01-16 06:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe its because shes also interested in you and somedays she feels more confident than others and those are the times that shes closer to you.
2007-01-16 06:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by fluffypurplealien 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋