My boyfriend and i broke up for awhile and he ended up getting with a really big slut that i didn't know about till after we got back together cause this has been going on for 2 years about, off and on, you know. well i got a phone call from the health clinic that said one of my partners had contracted clamidyia and it turns out it was from him because we had been having unprotected sex the whole time. what should i do?
2007-01-16 06:50:06 · 23 answers · asked by Big Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he would have contracted this through cheating then yes. However being that "you were on a break" he had no ties to you. The best way to figure out the answer for this question is how he reacted to you when you brought this up. If he was honest and upfront without trying to lie or deny then he deserves another chance. But if he played dumb and didn't fess up then leave his lying butt. You should keep in mind though that you two are off and on for a reason. If you haven't been able to keep it together in the past whats different for the future?? Or are the feelings still there in which what keeps pulling you two back together? Either way you know that there has been compatibility issues in the past so you must figure out why and if it has or can change. Good Luck & God Bless!
2007-01-16 07:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broken up at the time then he wasnt cheating on you - he was just very stupid for having unprotected sex. I think that you probably can forgive and forget but you also need to rethink when you think its safe to have unprotected sex with somebody - even someone that you are committed to. If you are both STD free now then draw a line under it and ensure that in future if you break up and get back together again use protection until you are sure they are safe - you could get a lot worse than chlamydia. If you havent already been fully checked over go and get a full sex check for everything (HIV etc) as you may well have contracted something else. It is unlikley though so dont worry too much about it - just get fully checked and make some new rules with your boyfriend.
2007-01-16 14:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Islandgirlss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cheated then dump his Butt, if you feel you can't get over it.. But Clamidyia is not something to play with but as long as u was treated you will be ok.. Make sure he got treated if you decide to stay with him... I know from experience that it hurts like h3ll when your cheated on then to find out u have an STD.. I myself got Clamidyia, i stayed with my BF cause i loved him an we both got treated an were still together today.. We will be married in 10 days an he has never cheated on me since.. It happen one time but it i was a long term thing i dont think i could have forgive him for it.. you have alot to think about, its nothing to be ashamed of ( i thought it was until the nurse sit me down an talk to me) you didnt go out an get it same as me.. take some time an think about thigs b4 jumpin right back in there
2007-01-16 14:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by pruittsgurl_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to run, run and never look back. Look at the bright side if there is one, at least he gave you something that can be cured!! Like the other people have said, you don't really need to ask. Chalk it up to stupidity and learn from it. Unless he/any other man you mess with is willing to get tested to give into the primal urge to fornicate! Way too much **** going around to just let people beat with a condom. If you are willing to keep living your life this way than you need to evaluate yourself. We all know it doesn't feel the same and we don't want to use them either, but it is a must. Take it wrapped or don't take it at all. Using protection it is the best way. nobody is abstains from sex so you can throw that choice out
2007-01-16 14:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, that's putting your life in jeopardy and if he can have unprotected sex after you all just broke up wonder how many more he has
get out or you will die young
2007-01-16 14:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'd get treated and worry about whether the threat will occur again. The fact that he was with someone else, means maybe he's not totally into you.
2007-01-16 14:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by wowwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your doctor get rid of the damn clamidyia tell ya man to do the same thing and live your life... and dont have unprotected s.e.x. with your man again...
2007-01-16 14:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Godson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Are you wanting more stds? Stay away from him...nextt ime it could be something deadly.
2007-01-16 14:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by TexasRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least it's curable. It's not the end of the world. Stay away from him!
2007-01-16 14:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well way to go. Do the commercials and AIDS deaths mean nothing to you??? AND yes leave him.
2007-01-16 14:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋