What do you think???/?

Question

Me and my boyfriend love watching t.v. together and when we see music videos he's always saying DAMN LOOK AT THAT GiRL and i don't get jealous but i think that it's not right because he's with me and he makes me feel worthless....and when i do the same thing just to get him mad he really gets mad.....but that's not fair because he does it all the time and i don't....it's just jealousy but what do i do so he will stop doing that i know i should talk to him but what should i tell him....i've tried talking to him!!! pleasssse write back

Answer 1

my now ex bf was the same way and i hated it but never talked to him about it, and i was scared when i tried to talk to him about everything and anything and couldnt. But i think in my opinion you should ask him if he really does love you or like you as much as the girls on tv. But remember hunny, the girls on tv are worthless for the fact that they are the ones stuck up and moody all the time, and you know and i know that your bf doesnt want someone like that b/c he wants someone like you, all he sees is the body of the female on tv, and nothing else, thats all. Thats what guys look at. I hate to say that but they do. But tell him how you feel when he says that kind of stuff next to you while watching tv. Let him know how you feel.

Answer 2

Honestly, it doesn't sound like it may be him. Guys will gawk at a woman; that's something they do; however, could you be on the insecure side and that's why you get mad? Women don't gawk and really don't make it known if they do; unless they're with friends, and generally speaking men do it then too. How long have you been with him? If he's like this all of the time and even in public; you might consider someone a little more mature and respectful of you. Boys act like that; not men. There's your difference right there. I hope this helps! =)

Answer 3

same with me.. every time Lisa Raye or Fantasia or someone with A LOT of a*s*s is on the screen, he'll make sexual comments about her. I feel like those are chicks he'll never deal with and they are on the screen while I'm sitting right next to him. I just let him make his comments and I dont think twice about it. Its only human nature to react to whatever pleases the eye, so I dont see it as a big deal. Now, youR bfs jelousy is just childish. Also, you should never do anything to intentionally make him mad, so your behavior is wrong as well. Ask him why he can comment, but you cant? This is very juvenile and something like this shouldnt even be an issue. Would you rather that he made comments like that to girls walking down the street? Just be glad that he'll probabbly never deal with these video chicks and he feels comfortable enough around you to express himself abuot other women. You should really worry if he felt like he had to HIDE his emotions.

Answer 4

omg kids... okay think about it... is the girl on t.v. anywhere around him? does he have a chance at getting this female on the music video's? damn kid its just t.v. its not like he is going to go and be with her who gives a damn about a video or t.v. your man is there with you... but hey it could be that he likes the way they look and wish he had something like that so make his wishes come true dress like a video girl and make him happy or just grow the f*@k up

Answer 5

Ever tried the sarcastic approach? Sounds to me that this guy has clear double standards - "it's ok for me, not for you". Personally, that is a trait I won't tolerate, but, if you feel this guy is worth the games, try jumping up and yellling "YEA, LOOK AT HER! WOW! CHECK OUT THE RACK ON HER! WOW! SHE'S AWESOME!" Making as big a fool of yourself as he is making of himself, MAY just rattle his cage enough to show him how stupid he looks. In other words, don't let him know it gets your goat - for whatever reason, he likes getting you all upset.

Answer 6

Get really serious n tell him look, i dont feel comfortable when u do thag plz stop. B/c that's happen 2 me b4. All i did was tell ma b/f how i felt n i told him if u dont stop we cant watch music videos together n e more b/c ur makin me feel uncomfortable.

Answer 7

well first of all it is a guy thing most guys do it out loud like yours, and some they just say it to himself. you should just sit him down and let him know how u feel about the situation. of course he was going to get mad at u doing it to him he feels that u are his woman and he doesn't want to know who u feel is sexy and fine. just tell him know how u feel, nine times out of ten he will tell u u have nothing to worry about, because he will never meet these girls anyway.

Answer 8

The girl I am dating does that same thing all the time. She even looked at my brothers pic, brother-in-laws pic, and said they were both hot and sexy. I really do not like that, I don't personally want to here how attractive she thinks other people are. I think I am going to kick her to the curb.

Good luck

Answer 9

men will be men theres not much you can do to change them they have the right as do you to look it dosent mean anything as long as youre the one hes with reap the splendor as for you doing it just to make him mad thats not a good idea a time for t hat is with youre girl friends. lotsa luck

Answer 10

don't get affected at all when he calls some girl (on TV) or even other wise 'hot'. just smile and say 'yeah she is'. that will say a lot about how confident you are about yourself . coz remember this for the rest fo your life ''boys will be boys''.!!! so just chill as long as your bf is not acting upon it.