There is this woman that I really like who works at the bank that I go to. I truly think that she is really pretty with a beautiful smile. I noticed that she isnt married or enagaged bc there was no ring on her finger at all. I know banktellers are supposed to be nice to all customers. She sometimes works as a teller or at the drive thru window. How can i find out if she is single? and what is the best way of getting her to notice me? Should i write her a note? bc the other teller could be listening to my convo with her if no one is there. What is the best thing thing i should do or how should i ask her out? thanks again.
2007-01-16 06:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The biggest mistake men make when contemplating asking a woman out is worrying about all the what-ifs. But what if this .... But what if that .... If you want to know, ask her. Trust me, we women wish you men would get up off your asses and just ask us! Jeez! The very worst she can say is "no."
2007-01-16 06:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Emm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Patience, patience, patience is the key.
Start by just making small talk. "It's cold/hot today", "You have a nice smile", "You have pretty eyes". Don't flirt too much at first. Let her feel comfortable around you, give her a chance to ask YOU questions. Once you've talked a little more, then ask her questions like what kind of food she likes, what movies she likes to see, what she likes to do. You are finding out WHERE to take her....but be subtle! Once you know her a little better THEN you can slip her a note and/or get her phone number. Obviously, use any excuse to go to the bank and make sure you are dressed nice and smile at her a lot.
2007-01-16 14:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting you should ask this. I go to a bank close to my home and there is this one teller that is really nice. I just started talking to her. That's all I did. I, on the other hand, am not interested in going out with her. Just friends. We all need more friends in my opinion. Anyways, I came by one time, close to Christmas, and gave her a Christmas card! Just be yourself and talk to her. The worst thing is she can say "no." Good luck!
2007-01-16 14:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely, you know her name. Just ask her. Who cares if the other teller is listening. It's not like you are saying something inappropriate. I'm sure she will be very flattered, and hopefully her reply will be a pleasant surprise for you. Now, put on a nice shirt. Comb your hair. make sure there's nothing in your teeth... and get yourself to the bank.
2007-01-16 14:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she does for fun on weekends. Most girls know what you're hinting at. If she's dating someone, she will start her answer with: "Well, my boyfriend and I usually....".
If she says she and her friends hang out at a certain place, then tell her you might see her there sometime. Then, go to that place so you'll run into her in a neutral environment.
That should get you started.
2007-01-16 14:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Abby Road 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please whatever you do DO NOT write a note and pass it to a bank teller.
2007-01-16 14:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by kissyface 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋