What should I do about this guy.......?

Question

So after I've been broken up with my last boyfriend for awhile, I've finally gotten to the point where I've moved on... I started dating this guy who is totally awesome and mature and we get along great. Things have been going great up until he told me that he had to be honest with me in his feelings.. he told me that as much as he enjoyed being with me and appreciating the fact that I've given him 100% in our relationship, he had to admit that he is giving about 50% of what he can into it because he still has feelings for his ex girlfriend. He wants his time and space to get over her, yet he still calls me everyday to hang out and says he doesn't want to lose contact with me ("things may work out in the future") .... I'm not sure if he just wants to keep me around for the good time, or if he may actually have feelings and just needs his time.. he also told me he doesn't want to date any other girls... help please? do i wait around or move on?

For some reason, this guy has been the first one since my last bf that I've genuinely loved spending time with (as more than a friend).. not to mention we look amazing together! (not that it should make a difference)

Answer 1

Give it some time. Dont act desperate. He doesnt miss you because you exist in front of him. The moment you do the vanishing act you will notice him chasing you. He will realize that he was this close to loosing you.

Guys are a bunch of emotional fools, you can mould them

Answer 2

Sounds to me like you should just move on, unless there are other pieces of this relationship you haven't mentioned here. If you aren't in love with him, and he is just a great friend to hang out with, that can be found in more than one person, so in that case moving on would be good. If you feel, however, that he is more than just your average joe, and worth the wait, stick it out. Good luck!