Its started out when we were little and then he went away for a long time and we are friends again. Now that we are alot older and mature weve started dating I really dont want to lose our friendship but he has hinting that when he comes back on break he wants to spend time with me, but then he kinda made me uncomfortable when he started asking questions like: when do you plan on getting married, how many kids and so on. Whats on his mind? I am not sure if he meant something by those questions help me please!
2007-01-16 06:15:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd talk to him... while it could mean something, it could also mean that he is trying to find out if YOU are going to try to pressure him into marriage/kids.
2007-01-16 06:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by mluikart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wasn't necessarily meaning anything by those questions. He could have been just making conversation or he could be sizing you up for future reference. You can't really get to know someone without asking questions and talking is the first step in any relationship.
Don't sweat it cause even if he did mean something by it, you can always say no. Let it go until you know something for sure.
2007-01-16 06:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him straight out what he meant? Honesty and straight forward is needed in this particular situation. Especially if you care about your friendship with the guy. Beating around the bushes will just leave too much room for misunderstanding and in the end it might cost you the friendship...
2007-01-16 06:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to talk to him when he comes back in town. He might be thinking about wanting to spend his life with you. He may just be wondering if you have thought about it as well. Have a serious talk with him, and find out what his intentions are. Good Luck
2007-01-16 06:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need to sit down and have a long, honest talk with each other. Ask questions, and be truthful.
2007-01-16 06:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It capacity actually what it says. He has attached/slept with different women, yet even after some dates or in spite of, he couldnt see it going everywhere with them. With you, he see's capacity. he's achieved with dating for now, given which you meet in spite of standards he has, and the different women didnt.
2016-12-16 06:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's thinking long term about being married to you. If you're not comfortable with that, tell him to just take things slow and see how this goes.
2007-01-16 06:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he def meant something by those questions. He's dropping major hints there.
2007-01-16 06:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think HE is unsure of YOUR intnetions as well, and asked cause if u have the answers right away, he might feel that u feel for more than he expected u to
2007-01-16 06:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋