We had a wonderful realtionship and I miss every bit of it. His hugs,his kisses,our dreams hopes and fears, I miss him so badly, I even took a chance dating another guy who looks like him and is the same age.and because I tried 2 use him to pick-up where my boyfriend left off in our relationship, I made a terrible mistake by letting him give me oral sex after knowing him for a week. Now he stops calling, and i'm left with an even bigger void in my life. In addition to regret and I feel like I disappointed and disrespected my late boyfriend. I also feel bad because this last guy leaving me, is replacing the times my boyfriend cheating(it's like i don't wanna get over him at all, not even the time he broke my heart cuz i feel like he isn't gonna come back evr again, so I want everything about him to be left in tact even the pain)
Am I crazy for feeling this way?Its just that I treause everything about our realtionships, the pain and love?
2007-01-16 05:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its called rebound love and now that it is over its 'okay' and its okay to feel the way you are feeling now but you need to let go of wanting to find someone exactly like your first boyfriend. Everyone is different and am sure there are nice guys for you who are just as nice as your first boyfriend, its just that each one is a precious individual and is unique so you need to love a person for what they are rather than what they remind you of. Anyway though its hard forget the past and move on am sure in time when you ready you will find the right guy who is perfect for you. As for the guy who stopped calling you, forget him, you derserve so much better. Let me also add that if you think love is painful and you enjoy that, thats destructive, if love is painful its not love, love should make one happy like they are on cloud 9 not the other way round. Good Luck.
2007-01-16 06:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by GUESS GIRL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should stop being so wrapped up in these guys and just be alone for a while. There is no way you can pursue a relationship when your heart is still left in the prior one. That's prob why the latter b/f left. Things are not going to be fixed overnight...healing is a timely process. So, with each day, concentrate on things you can do for yourself to make you happy. Then use a man as a SUPPLEMENT.
2007-01-16 06:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by bgsfnstldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perchance you should provide up being so wrapped up in those adult men and in basic terms be on my own for a lengthy time period. there's no way you may pursue a relationship even as your heart continues to be left interior the faster one. it truly is prob why the latter b/f left. issues are not any further going to be mounted in one day...therapeutic is a well timed procedure. So, with on a on a daily basis foundation, concentration on belongings you may do for your self to make you satisfied. Then use a guy as a supplement.
2016-10-15 07:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by atleh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a church or other organization that offers grief counseling. You need help getting through your stages of grief, there are other people going through the same thing. I know people who have gone and I know people who are grief counselors, they do it through their church, but you don't have to be a member to go. Look for a place that offers it.
2007-01-16 06:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again count this creep(me) in.I'll be glad you
2007-01-16 05:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋