When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. I have also found out she is now going out with someone else, and I know I should just leave it alone but, I really want to go out with her. Is there anyway I can stand out and maybe slowly get her attracted to me again so If it dosent work out with her other boyfriend she might consider me? HELP!
2007-01-16 05:47:43 · 18 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure you asked this a few days ago!
2007-01-16 05:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok... lol... first of all to all these people that say you lost your chance... that is complete bulls h i t. and I am living proof of it. My gf liked me a year before I had any interest in her. She layed off after a few months and then I came around. And to answer your question. Just start talking to her. Its always good to be friends before partners, but not TOO good of friends. And as for her boyfriend right now... she could be using him to make you jealous. thats wrong for girls to do but they do it anyway. and second... they are just dating.... its not like they are engaged or much less married! I say be yourself around her and see what happens. She OBVIOUSLY likes your personality and your traits.
2007-01-16 05:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by SpaZz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start talking to her mates and play a bit of hardball, people use jealously, but dont get too serious when you talk to her mates or it will get you in badd trouble so dont go too deep in the water k. Then she would probably notice that you get attention from her friends and will wonder why and what is so extra spesh about you. and then she MAY take considerations
2007-01-16 05:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by cutehonebabe2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha so at first you knew she liked you and would be there so it was like w/e..because you got the attention..but now shes not giving you any...instead shes got someone else..actually you should..get enough balls to go up and talk to her yourself..become friends with her..build some trust between the two of you..that way if something doesnt work out with the other guy..youre there to comfort her..ya know?!
2007-01-16 05:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by RiRi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. when you see her alone, come up to her and talk to her about small things. then slowly start having more and more conversations with her. maybe she'll catch on that you like her now.
2007-01-16 05:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Harlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like her now because she's not attracted to you anymore. Just wait. IF they break up, be there for her to talk to. But don't try to break them up. For now you can try talking to her yourself. Become a friend
2007-01-16 05:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may of missed the boat on this one
better luck next time some one takes an interest in you
good luck
2007-01-16 05:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by angies_angel_eyes2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything right now. Just be friendly with everyone and she'll see that you're more approachable now than before.
2007-01-16 05:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start playing around with her and show her more attention
2007-01-16 05:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go man, don't be a home wrecker, that's just asking for trouble
2007-01-16 05:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Doug H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋