There's a guy I like and I don't know how to ask him out. Should I wait for him to ask me out, or should I ask him out? Ijust never ask boys out because it never works.
2007-01-16 05:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by jubilee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should approach him and talk to him first.. Try to get to know a little bit about him, flirt a little, smile a little and see weather or not he feels an attraction for you- If he flirts back or seems that he is interested then you ask weather or not he wants to hang out...... me personally, I'm too shy to ask guys out but i do try to talk and flirt a little bit, giving the guy a little hint that i find him interesting- usually it works.....
But then again- I'm still single! Lol
2007-01-16 05:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A paradox here, yes? You want to ask him out but you are afraid too because doing such never works for you. In addition, he doesn't seem readily inclined to ask you out. So what to do? Easy, do not ask him out, most guys take that to mean you are overly aggresive where it is their place to be so. What you should do is just make yourself more readily available to him. Spend more time around him and flirt (it seems most people have forgotten how to flirt nowadays, I blame the faceless/nameless internet for ruining or socialistic culture) with him. Eventually he will notice (and save for a kick in the butt) he will eventually ask you out. Now you hold all the cards and can domiante him like women have been doing to us poor men for millenia..or so we lead you to believe!! Mwa Ha Ha !!
2007-01-16 05:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just shy and would never be able to ask a girl out. If you like him and you're pretty sure he likes you, just ask. If it doesn't work- who cares? At least you will know.
2007-01-16 05:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in this situation once, where i wanted to go out with this fit boy, so i just went to him when he was away from his mates and asked him out, because that way he will know how you feel for him, and that you got the guts to. Don't wait for him because he might get a girl before you know it
2007-01-16 05:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by cutehonebabe2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. If you wait around for him it may never happen, then you always wonder what could have been.
Just do it.
2007-01-16 05:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable asking him out atleast go and start a conversation with him, who knows he just might ask you out.
2007-01-16 05:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. You may be surprised at his action - which is a good thing.
2007-01-16 05:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by vlad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chat to him and durin the convo just say i have to dash off but if you would like to carry this convo on over a drink sometime this is my number let me know i think it would work anyway
2007-01-16 05:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jo C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and keep it "casual" with him. Ask him if he'd like to have a cup of coffee, or a soda sometime. "No" can't hurt you unless you let it.
2007-01-16 05:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO!! *Sigh* I SOO wish I had the confidence to ask my guy out...but my guy lives just a couple of million km away, so don't be like me, GO GO GO GO GO GO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 05:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Vidushi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋