My girlfriend broke up with me (kinda), but never came out and said that it was over instead she had her friend and her brother do it for her. I still care about her and want to be with her. But I feel disrespected because she didn't have the balls to tell me herself. She doesn't have a boyfriend or anything so I don't know what caused the break up. If she just talk to me maybe, I could of done something to change (if I did anything wrong). I just think its weird how she said she loved me one day and then the next day her friend tells me its over. Has this ever happened to anybody before.
2007-01-16 05:43:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anthony T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, don't you think at 19 years old, she's to old to be doing stuff like this.
2007-01-16 05:54:56 · update #1
I think I said this already, but someone asked. We are both 19 and we are college students. The problem isn't that she broke up with me. The problem is she didn't have the balls to say it herself.
2007-01-16 06:03:32 · update #2
yes, and it is very childish, if she changes her mind, RUN
2007-01-16 05:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by rudyspuddin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this hasn't happened to me before, but I agree it is childish. But there again could this friend and brother be jealous of your relationship? if so they may be doing this to split you up, I have had things like that done to me before, but if not then there is something wrong. It could be something to do with her commitment wise, if she has had bad relationships before then she may get scared and pull away from good ones for no apparent reason. I would try and get in touch with her to find out if this is the case, if she wont talk to you directly try getting a friend to mediate for you both. hope this helps
2007-01-16 13:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by bamco19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, something like that. I think either I did that or my ex. I think it was him though. He did tell me himself, but it was just from one day to another. I guess we both knew it was going bad and that we were just acting. We got back together and broke up again. And the other day he told me he always regrets it. And I'm like,........it might keep happening. And I don't wanna anymore, so we don't really talk. It's not that it's too awkward(for me it's not) but we just don't.
2007-01-16 13:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. she is a coward and you deserve someone better. move on. she could be confused, but to have someone else do it for her is so low. you need closure of some type and that really sucks. you are a good guy and have a little faith in yourself. your ego is probably bruised but in time you will realize you don't need that in life. relationships can only be are you in or are you out? She's not in. Always look forward. You can never look back.
2007-01-16 13:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not the actions of a mature person, I would suggest you take this knowledge and use it in your future and avoid this type of girl. As for you being disrespected, you were, but there is nothing you can do to change that, just do not be a target with her again, and she may change her mind and sends a overture to get you back
2007-01-16 13:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old she is ,maybe she's just too young for a serious relationship and just wants a bit of fun with someone she likes to be with, at the moment.When we're young we are social butterfly's, spread your wings and fly and enjoy the experience.
2007-01-16 13:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by hogasnog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least her mother didn't call and break up with you, now that was so stupid I never cared if I ever saw him again. You might as well take the same tack because she has the same lack my long ago ex had, and I went on.
2007-01-16 13:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a jerk. Leave her alone. If she's not woman enough to talk to you about why she doesn't want to be with you any longer then she isn't even worth your time. Yes, this has happened to me before ... but I'd expect this coming from a man! A woman? Not so much!
2007-01-16 13:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But he did not have any guts. Do yourself a favor, move on without saying anything to her (Even if it hurts) With time, you'll see you are much better off
2007-01-16 13:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not me.sounds like a total cop out! She should have talked with u instead of being a coward.Goodluck to you,hope u get someone better.
2007-01-16 13:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by alientwilight21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no . . but it is probally for the best . . she is not open enough with you to tell you why she broke up let alone break up with you . . that is not a good relationship . . start looking for someone who can talk to you . . that's the foundation to a relationship . .
2007-01-16 13:50:50 · answer #11 · answered by Rainy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋