ok i have a beautiful baby girl. her dad and me split up a while ago and he has anger problems and very self centered. but i love him and we recently just got back together even tho he got mad and said he was going to kill me and our child...but he made me stop talking to this guy i really like but i want to talk to him....i think im fallin for him..and my bf-mike is all on my case about it like there is no trust in this relationship....the other guy-ryan says he will wait for me but not forever. im stuck i dont know what i sould do. plz help.
2007-01-16 05:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about whats best for your daughter then act, you are in controll of your own destiny sometimes so make it a good one for you and your daughter , mike is trying to controll your destiny with aggression and that is NOT the way relationships work and deep down you know it , and how do you think your daughter will be reacting to this aggression when she is 10 ??? you know he has to go , he may not change , you and your daughter need real love from a kind and gentle man , fun and happiness the way love should be , not fear and rejection with mixed emotions ,so get out there and find true love for both your sakes before its too late
2007-01-16 05:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by insenergy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do NOT want to be in a relationship where the lifes of you or your daughter are threatened. EVER. You should stay away from her father and seek help if he starts following or threatening you again. Which he probably will if you leave him. But remember that your daughter's life and safety is paramount. I can't really give you any advice past "put your child first."
2007-01-16 13:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hobbitling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hell with my wants, if someone told me thy kill my baby especially someone with anger problems I STOP like a good mom should do.
put a plan in to action for my escape then
I'd go to the police tell them about him say he's going to kill me and my baby ,
get a copy of the police report right their ,,,and book never to be seen .
get rid of the boyfriend first and fast .(the baby's father)
the new guy can Wait
Don't ever trust him!!! he'll say anything to keep you their.
2007-01-16 14:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by ღ♥ஐcookie1ஐ♥ღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look at both relationships and decide which one is healthier for you and your daughter. Your daughter is very important because she depends on you to take care of her if you are not happy then she will not be happy. You have to be happy before you can make anyone else happy. Just be careful and do what is best for your daughter and you not someone else.
2007-01-16 13:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run from Abuse! No one deserves to be treated like dirt and threatened-especially your daughter! You can do better and your little girl deserves better. Do you want her to grow up with abuse? No way! Do whatever you have to do but get away from this guy and find something better that you deserve!
2007-01-16 13:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by lbmintz8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋