OK TELL ME IF THIS IS GONNA LOOK OK =) IM IN A WHITE DRESS WITH LIGHT PINK THINGS THAT GO DOWN THE BACK(TEAROSE) . THE BRIDESMAIDS ARE IN DRESSES THE SAME COLOR AS THE PINK ON MY DRESS. NOW THE GROOM IS WEARING A BLACK BOWTIE AND BLACK VEST WHITE SHIRT AND HIS GUYS ARE WEARING BLACK VEST BLACK SHIRT AND PINK TIE. I KNOW USUALLY THEY'LL WEAR EITHER ALL TIES OR ALL BOWTIES BUT THATS NOT WHAT WE ENDED UP PICKING OUT HE'LL ALSO LOOK MORE CLASSIER AND NICE WITH THE BOWTIE BUT LIKE I SAID THE GROOMSMEN ARE IN TIES. IS THAT OK? OF COURSE THE COAT AND ALL TOO. AND MY FIFI GOT THOSE OLDSCHOOL ZOOT SUIT LOOKING SHOES THAT ARE BLACK WITH WHITE ON TOP OF THE TOE PART. THAN MY FLOWER GIRL AND MOH IS IN THE SAME DRESS AS THE BRIDESMAIDS AND RING BEAR IN THE SAME ATTIRE AS THE GROOMSMEN. AND CAN I JUST SAY MY FLOWERGIRL (FUTURE SISTER IN LAW) IS 12! IS MY WEDDING GONNA BE TACKY LOOKING OR WHAT? I NEED ADVICE PEOPLE!
2007-01-16 05:37:25 · 12 answers · asked by Ambersgettingmarried 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The pink is fine on the girls; but a little much on the guys. Have them wear all the same type of tie, and posibly go with black as the color or even gray as pink and gray are very complimentary to each other). The shoes don't really matter, especially if all the groomsmen are wearing them. As far as the flower girl, 12 is a bit old for that but its your wedding so if you want her as the flower girl then go for it.
2007-01-16 06:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how to write sentences? So hard to read what you are writing! And please don't write in caps!
Why don't you go to a place that rents tuxes. And get their advice on the ties, shirts and shoes. They know a lot more about what is tacky and what isn't. I think all of the men should wear white shirts, and the same color ties. Same style, too. They are wearing jackets, aren't they?
Your dress and the attendants dresses sound great! Your MOH and bridesmaids can all wear the same style dress. People will know who your MOH is because she will be standing next to you.
Twelve is too old to be a flower girl. Either make her a junior bridesmaid, or give her another important job to do.
Maybe go to the library and get a book about the proper way to plan a wedding!
Happy years together!
2007-01-16 20:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - do not type in all caps. Anyway, I would put all the guys in either a tie or bowtie - preferrably tie. If you want the groom different than just do a button cover. I'd think twice about pink ties for the groomsmen. Unless itt's a very pale pink - then that should be okay. It may or may not look tacky - as long as you like it than that's all that matters.
2007-01-16 07:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only things I would change or tweak a bit are the guys and the pink ties. Honestly it is going to be too much pink. I would change the guys to all the same style of tie, either bow or Windsor (in black) and just have the boutonnieres be a pink rose. It will bring the whole bridal party together visually, without being matchy-matchy. The shoes sound really cool. Yes, 12 is a little old for a flower girl. You don't have to have a flower girl at all, just make her a Jr. bridesmaid, I'm sure she will love the title!
2007-01-16 06:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by MelB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to lose the bowtie. Have your groom go with a white or off white vest and tie. You may be better off making the flower girl a junior bridesmaid. Other than that, things sound fine.
2007-01-16 06:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by Meems 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your weddings will not be tacky unless you leave things as they are.
Make the 12 year old a Jr. bridesmaid.
Loose the pink ties on the guys. All of the ties should be the same style, white or black. About shoes If you like it--fly with it.
It will be fun to have a 12 yo little sister. You can teacher her about makeup & boys. I have a sis 17 years younger than me & I love it!
2007-01-16 06:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by ee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
12 is a little old to be a flower girl, I would make her a Jr. Bridesmaid and pick someone younger for flower girl. All the guys need to be in either bow ties or regular ties don't mix it up and the shoes are called brogues and I don't think they will look good at all, you need just the regular black shiny shoes.
2007-01-16 05:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by hinshaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is your wedding .but dbl check with you hubby to be, and 'tails' on the grooms 'TUx' coat .is not hard to'stand-out for the groom ,no not tacky, [i;m wearing a bow tie[TUX] for my daughters wedding.so ? you have the fun and Good luck
2007-01-16 06:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by whoeddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL.. that's a LOT of pink!! i think it'd be cute if the pink is not too harsh, and if the dresses are not too long. :)
good luck~
2007-01-16 05:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋