he thinks his my baby brother and if i tell him he mate live me!!
2007-01-16 05:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better tell him right away. If he has any objections about your baby, he is definately not the man for you. Put your child before any boyfriend.
2007-01-16 05:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him before you started dating, but since it is too late for that tell him right away. If he is not okay with it, then he is not for you. Having a child is a big part of someone's life and you shouldn't be with someone who is not okay with that. Also, if he is not okay with it it could be because you didn't tell him in the first place, which is understandable. At this point, you really can't get angry if he leaves you, being that technically it is your fault for not being honest upfront.
2007-01-16 05:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late. You are already a liar. If you don't want a guy to dump you because you have a child, then you have to be honest and give them a chance to make an informed decision. I could date an honest woman with a child. I could NOT date a LIAR. If the guy leaves, then he was not the right guy to begin with. Quit being selfish and try being honest.
2007-01-16 05:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by FelixtheCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know why you didn't correct him when you realized he thought that was your baby brother...I don't understand what's wrong with you just opening up your mouth and saying it...
if he leaves you because of that, then was he really meant for you, stop acting like he need this boyfriend more than your child...
2007-01-16 05:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he leaves you!! He wasn't meant for you anyway.. Actually you don't deserve the man if you are lying to him right from the get go...Furthermore - what kind of person are you to lie about your child just so you can have a man in your life?? Grow up.
2007-01-16 05:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've started out wrong by lying so if you tell him and he leaves then it's his choice and it's not his fault because you've taken that option away from him. What's so hard about telling the truth in the beginning because sooner or later it will come out.
2007-01-16 05:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if he leaves you it won't be because you have a baby it will be because you lied about it.
2007-01-16 05:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by scoop6698 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you lie to him in the first place?
2007-01-16 05:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.
2007-01-16 05:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by tchem75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋