I don't use my lab top much, she is like i dunno why you bought it. She wants like 750 dollars, which i did say i would help but that was when she got mad and hung up on me. so i am confused, if she just needs support or using me / we have been together 1 yr. She wants to use my computer to start up her business cuz her computer is outdated. So I ended up offering a couple hundred.
2007-01-16 05:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by boshie 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Credit
Don't be a fool............let her get a loan from a financial institution.
Her loan can also include $ towards a new computer.
Can't she get help from her parents?
Be firm and just say no to all her request.
2007-01-16 05:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not married and it doesn't even sound like you're engaged. Because of that you are obligated to get something in writing signed by her that this is a loan, weather it's for the money or the use of the lap top, otherwise you put yourself at risk for being used. If she wants this as a business start up, then she should understand and not have a problem with it being a business loan from you. Good luck.
2007-01-16 06:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anna Hennings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly watch it...esp if she's throwing a temper tantrum because you won't give her 750..also - are u giving it to her or are u lending it to her.....so far from your description....sounds like she's taking the "what's yours is mine" approach. Also...in addition to giving her 750..you're giving her your laptop too....what would u say to a friend that was in the same situation.
Also - what happened when you gave her a couple hundred...did she instantly back off temporarily? If she did - what does that tell you?
Not cool sweets....you're not her atm...you're her bf....keep those separate.
She might also want to look into taking out a loan for her business rather than taking all of your stuff.
2007-01-16 05:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by kristina807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your financial situation. If you are really close to one another and you have the money, just give it to her. If you don't have the money, don't do it. It appears she is a little controlling/demanding for hanging up on you like this. If she needs the money, make her earn it by being nice to you. If you loan her the money, your relationship will change and not for the better. Like I said, if you have the money and won't miss it to bad, just give it to her. If you two end up married, you haven't lost it anyways. If you don't get married, you gave a girlfriend a nice gift which she will hopefully remember from you.
2007-01-16 07:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Forest Run....
As far away as you can. You are just asking for trouble if you stay with her. She needs the money to pay off a Credit Card and she wants to start a Business????
2007-01-16 05:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by OC1999 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like a sugar daddy. If she wants to include you as a partner in her business then help her, if not then guaranteed you will end up in small claims court if you want anything you give her, back.
2007-01-16 05:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guy are going to get married or something like that then go ahead.
2007-01-16 06:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋