Background info on me and my ex...could me helpful:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgJS4aqCA9C.Cerc3V9nwJ_sy6IX?qid=20070105013615AA9CefD
Anyway three nights ago my ex's younger sister IMed me and she was talking to me for like 20 min. The next night, my ex calls me twice; I picked up, but then hung up (b/c I've moved on in the last month, I've been happy again, and feeling good with my life, and my friends). Next morning I have an email from her on myspace. I didn't read it at first and instead just went to her myspace, where she has "in a relationship" and a pic of her and some guy being close. So I open the email (and it has surprisingly nothing to do with her sister) and it says "Thanks a f*cking lot for hanging up on my last nite. So I guess all that 'I'll always be there for you and you can always talk to me' was a bunch of **** lies." The email consisted exactly what I feared; the same drama as before. I've been happy lately, and she's acting the same way. So what
2007-01-16 05:30:28 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..do you think of my ex? And she always just contacts me whever she has a new bf. Like that guy Andy she moved in with for a month in my other question...and now with this new guy. I don't get why.
2007-01-16 05:32:03 · update #1
Yeah seriously, thanks everyone. I have yet to respond to her and I'm not gonna either. She is maybe trying to get a rise out of me, but she isn't gonna. I have no desire to reply back or talk to her. And I'm so over her, because I saw that pic of her and that guy and I don't care; like, I felt nothing looking at her with someone else. I've been hanging out with friends, having a great time, partying etc, when that one special girl comes along I'll know it. But til then I'm just having fun. Those things shouldn't be rushed like shw rushes them.
In 51/2 months she's had two other boyfriends and somewhere in the middle of those 5 - 6 mos she's came back to me and told me she wants to be intimate again and go on vacation together.
WOW! lol
2007-01-16 06:28:37 · update #2
I am going to be honest with you. In life, we all have a road to take, but sometimes there are negative forces that come into our lives to try and deter us from our path.
Get that person out of you life. They are no good. That means bad, lying cheating and not of God.
2007-01-16 05:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let her ruin your happiness. You've moved on right? So stay that way. I think you should just ignore her unless she has something nice to say. Although I think you should've have hung up on her. Because that gave her a reason to be nasty to you.
Also, I don't think your completely over her just because you asked this Q.
You need to decide weither you want to be friends with her or not. If you do, only aswer her call if you want to talk and don't listen to her complaints. if you don't ignore her all together.
2007-01-16 13:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There were some good responses given to you in y/a. Ignore her, block her calls and emails if you have to. You both seem extremely young, and (in her case) very immature. You do not need the hassle. Hold your head up, keep busy. The best of luck to you.
2007-01-16 14:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she's slightly hung up on you and just wants to rub these new guys in your face or something and make you feel bad. Just keep doing what you're doing and stay happy. You don't need someone like that trying to drag you down.
2007-01-16 13:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women can be spiteful, she sounds like one of these. It sounds like she just wants to rub it in your face that she's out having fun, and not having any problem finding someone to screw her. And she probably put her sister up to IMing you. If she does it again tell her sister that if she doesn't want to give you some: GOOD BYE
2007-01-16 13:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by jrsabbc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she considers you now as a very close friend because you guys had been together and she feels comfortable talking to you about her new bfs. She doesn't want to lose you as a friend just because you guys broke up.
2007-01-16 13:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Chicken Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on man the only reason shes doing this is coz she still has feeling for you and wants to make you jealous but the best thing to do is move on other wise ur gona get dramas in your life
2007-01-16 13:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look dude,
What the hell, I read your profile... and I have one word to say to you... you did a right think and FFFFF that Biatch!!!!... Send the same reply back to her and cut all contacts, if you see her again smile and pass by.. go get yourself another girlfriend... enjoy your life!!!
2007-01-16 13:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by walkingdeath 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you still have feelings for this person... because when you truly don't care about someone.. you just don't care to talk, think, or be around that "someone"... and you are letting this person be involved in your life still.
2007-01-16 13:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are really over her, then stop continuing this story. Let her go and be done with her. Thank you.
2007-01-16 14:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋