Four weeks ago my ex girlfriend and I broke up, she has Bi Polar and was in one of her manic stages that week. Be had broken up once before over the summer and got back together. She had told me she did not want feel tied down, and wanted see other people, wanted see what it was like. She had told me that she still love me.
This weekend she came over, and her and I had the most amazing weekend. We cuddled, had fun together and talked about very deep thing every night. She had told me that she still love me very much, however it was hard for her when she felt as if she was being pulled in every different direction, she told me that she wishes she could only be with me however right now she needs to think. She tell me whatever happens she couldn't possibly trust or love anyone as much as me, and she could never have me out of her life it would kill her inside. So. I had tarot done and one person 25 years of experiance said we'd be together again it looked hopeful another...
2007-01-16 05:24:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Said we would not be together again and I had problems.. however this person did this over the internet and did not even tell me what cards came up. Should I even trust that second reading? Also.. when I have pray very hard on Friday to have a wonderful weekend with her my prayers were answered. Do you think there is a good chance we have a future together? And should I even believe in tarot cards?
2007-01-16 05:26:27 · update #1
i know what it is like to have this condition and the emotions you experience without being able to control yourself. you talked about how she feels tied down and trapped. the first thing you need to convey to her if you want to be with her is that above all else you are her friend and care about her. you can't just say it you need to believe it and demonstrate it in your actions. try letting her initiate contact and let her knew that you are always available to talk and listen to what is going on and how she is feeling. one thing i told my boyfriend is that when i am mad i am not mad at him and that he should not let it offend him. i know it is hard and that it hurts when she says she wants to see other people. try giving each other space and taking a break for breathing room. this doesn't mean don't talk you still need to be her friend or she could have some lows that will drive you further apart. hope this helps you and good luck!
by the way, forget tarot cards and follow your heart, only you two know what is really going on.
2007-01-16 05:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by hime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not gonna lie I believe God and i do believe not necessary Tarot cards but phytic people. There are out there that dont use no white or black magic that are just giften and have abilities to have visions. It is not about how many years that person had experience it is all based on a person that have or dont have that gift. Mainly people that do things that come out to be truth are of gypsy, sicilian background and all of them have to have dark eyez. Those are counted to be strongest people with a gift like that. Now again you have to watch out some people have powers to preach you something and it will actually happen but wasnt necessary your destiny, feel me? Stay away from those people.
Personally you said you was praying for a good weekend, well guess what use that techique. Leave it in God's hands is the best answer. Tarot and any other card reader is not the way to go. If it is meant for you to be together then you are going to be together, just let God solve this for you. ;)
When it comes to your gf then she look like is in need for experience , she is variety seeking, and too young to be with someone without mingaling on a side. She is actually right in way. You have to be out there and see thing, experience things before you settle down, because if you do end up being together and marrying (God forbit in next month or two) then it will not work, now after she is done doggin around she may be readyt o settle down because she already seen whats out there and now she definitely know what she wants is you and only you, feel me?
2007-01-16 05:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a ditz. If I didn't know any better I'd think a teenage girl asked this question. My best advice is to start to take some control over your life, concentrate on masculinity, start watching football on TV. Stop watching TV sitcoms and playing with tarot cards. Start concentrating on more serious minded traditional things. I suggest becoming Catholic. Only date ladies for now on, not fellow ditzes.
And as far as she goes......call her right now, and tell her, "I've made the decision easy for you. Lose my phone number." Then hang up, and never take her call again. She will be completely baffeled and worried with this new decisive side you are showing. If you should decide to talk to her again, do so only after she begs. The you call the shots from then on. If she tries to wrestle control again some time after this, repeat the same steps.
If you have not had sex with this girl, don't talk to her again.
2007-01-16 05:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by diamond_kursed 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think ---you only have the present to enjoy. We don't know what the future holds but be sure to know the God who holds the future. Some people have the ability to see the future but only God has the power not only to see but to change the future as He sees fit. The love you have right now with this person is already a wonderful experience and this experience should have brought you not only hope but also meaning in life. The future does not exist yet for you but what happens now will surely tell you what it will be in the future.
2007-01-16 05:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Edgar V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard the key to bi-polar is medication and continual use of the medication. Many people who are bi-polar take the medication and begin to feel better and think they don't need the medication anymore. That is when big problems begin to happen and manic episodes are heightened. Does she take medication? She obviously does care for you and you for her, and I think if she is treated for the bi-polar then there is a good chance that you will get back together. But remember, being with someone with bi-polar is not and easy thing to deal with.
2007-01-16 05:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by MsCantBeWrong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are the odds that 2 tarot kooks would come up with different answers.
Uh, the reason your g/f is having problems trying to decide about you is that even though she may love and trust you, she knows you are an idiot for believing in Tarot readings.
2007-01-16 05:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Steve H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not trust tarot cards those people are possesed. Try giving her some space but do something nice for her. I fshe loves you she will make the right choice just give her some time and don't be pushy.
2007-01-16 05:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Peluche22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the tarot. This girl is being very up front and honest with you. How refreshing. Enjoy the times you have together and don't push anything. Life is long, be patient
2007-01-16 05:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tarot Cards are a joke. Is she on meds? I think as long as she is on meds and you trust each other and love each other that anything is possible. Dealing with someone who is bipolar can be hard though and you have to be up to the challenge.
2007-01-16 05:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in tarot cards but i think u should be with this girl if she really feels the way she says she feels. If u think it is worth it u should go ahead and try to make it work. Remember anything worth having is worth fighting for.
2007-01-16 05:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by King Castellon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋