Im confused right now...i need a girls opinion. Ok, me and my girlfriend have had sex before (once) it was her first time. We're only 15 tho.. She told me she wanted for me to have sex with her becasue we've went out for almost a year. And now a few weeks later I asked her if she would do it again and i didnt get a real answear. Shes one of those good girls. Really good. And should I keep asking her until I get an answear? or leave it be?
2007-01-16 05:12:28 · 10 answers · asked by Alex M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to leave it alone. Since it was her first time, I'm guessing it didnt feel too good. You two might have rushed things along too fast, and hurt her.
I suggest baby steps: doing the other things first before sex.
2007-01-16 05:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both too young to be doing that - let it go and grow up before you start doing that sort of stuff. What would happen if she got pregnant? You ready to be a dad?? I have an ex bf who's daughter was born when he was only 16 . . . it can happen no matter how careful you try to be.
2007-01-16 13:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person before me and the other ladies Let it be, you are too young and she will let you know when she is ready, And one more thing next time remember, PROTECTION!
2007-01-16 13:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm with the other two ladies...if it was her first time she's probably remembering it wasn't that good for her...even if for you it was the greatest thing ever...
let it be and when she's ready she'll tell you...don't rush her b/c then she'll think that's the only thing you want from her and will probably make her dump you...not good
2007-01-16 13:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by aReLy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let be because 2 things you keep asking her she might say it is over and that might hurt your relationship and 2 the relationship isnt all about sex.
2007-01-16 13:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by sonya_69_andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont keep asking because then she will feel pressured into doing and plus yall should wait tell marrige
good luck
2007-01-16 13:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not answering you then she probably doesn't want to do it again. Atleast not yet. Be supportive and tell her you still like/love her and it doesn't matter if she doesn't want to have sex again.
2007-01-16 13:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by momofmodi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' keep asking she will feel pressured. let it be when she is ready she will let you know.
2007-01-16 13:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave it or maybe end up losing her if u keep on pushing it on her
2007-01-16 13:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie_abbas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.... you should respect her decision.
2007-01-16 13:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋