He was practically living at my house, as of last week he wanted to work things out. This week he says he wants to build a friendship foundation to see if I would treat him the same as a friend. Says he doesnt want to leave out of my life and that I should be excited about getting to know him better. And that we individually need to work on things within ourselves. is he just bsing me, or does is willing to work on things in the future?
2007-01-16 05:07:12 · 6 answers · asked by CLEETERS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt think I was being to clingy, but we did rush into things I met him the beginning of Nov., and we have mutal friends who met the same day and r now in a full blown relationship. But, in the beginning we never friends 1st nite he came over my house he spent the nite (no sex was invovled) we started dating and after that we were with each other close to every day, of course he works a 9-5 and i so do I, so we would only be together at nite.
2007-01-16 05:33:19 · update #1
And yes i do want 2 be with him, I care about him alot. Despite, of everything I still thinks hes a great man
2007-01-16 05:37:34 · update #2
Attention - backup.
Are you being clingy?
2007-01-16 05:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be his suga mama!!!! He'll never give you a way out. If he wants a friendship then set some house rules. All your friends should follow these anyway, he'll want to act like a girlfriend. Like in the bathroom with you, changing in front of you,etc. Cant happen. He is a man friend. So maybe you should go out on one date with a familar face. Keep it simple!! He may get jealous, but remind him you are only friends. If he wants to get to know you better as a friend then it should blow over. If you really like him, tell him that friendship is not what you had in mind. You can take the relationship slow so you do get to know one another. this isn't marriage so youre not tied down.
2007-01-16 05:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Linz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be undecided about his feelings. If he doesn't want a relationship, then don't give him the time of day. Ask him if he even cares about your feelings at all and tell him that you want to be with him, that is if you still do. If you were friends once before, why take a step back. If he has no feelings for you, he shouldn't be hanging around you just to see if you are emotionally attached. Tell him your feelings and then decide if you want to be with him. Good luck!!!
2007-01-16 05:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by To Remain Anonymous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated someone like that; but he wasn't doing the living situation thing....but he got really weird even after he suggested it; I broke it off with him. He should have thought of this in the very beginning; you really can't date and then go to a friendship to see how he or you gets treated. Trust me on this one; things will get weird if you give the ok.
2007-01-16 05:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bs you, lol. why would you be the one to get excited about getting to know more about him when you two aren't together?? sounds like he is the one that should be excited about you giving him that chance. do you really want to work on things in the future with him?
2007-01-16 05:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He justs wants the goods without the attatchment.
My suggestion is to not give him any unless its in a relationship.
2007-01-16 05:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋