i broke up with him because he wanted to leave me for this white girl named Emily im not being racist but how could he say he loves me when he was having all kinds of fantasies with that girl Emily... Please help!!!!!!!!!! :0
2007-01-16 05:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by *~*ShOrTiie*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guy sounds like he was a waste of life, you are not racist, and this is not a racist issue. He was with you but had feelings for another, he was wrong to capture your heart whenhe really did not want it 100%. I say take a few weeks for yourself, look at your life and figure out what you want to do and how you are going to do it, and then move on from this douche. I hope you find another.
2007-01-16 05:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by PDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww ... baby girl, did he really want to leave you or did you just assume that he wanted to leave because he was having fantasies about someone else? Sometimes dreams are just dreams. You can not control your subconscious, so it kinda sucks to be in that situation. It's if he acts upon them that truly matters. I'm a sleep talker so I know what I'm talking about here. My husband accuses me to this day of sleeping with people that I don't even know of personally. I have dreams, and I talk all through the night - so my husband is hearing me talk about all types of people, men and women. I don't remember any of it at all when I wake up. But he gets hurt and offended. So I can understand where you're coming from. You should probably talk to him to make sure that it's the right decision to leave him alone. If he wants to be with Emily ... let him be. You can do better anyways. If the dreams are just dreams and fantansies ... then perhaps you two can talk it out and help him iron out his fantasy by introducing him to some of the things that he may think only she would do for him ... I hope everything works out for you sweetie ~ and if you truly love him ... it's worth at least talking to him about it to see exactly where he stands.
2007-01-16 13:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just looking for a girlfriend to get the girlfriend experience. You got used because he couldn't have that other girl, Emily.
2007-01-16 13:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are hurting right now. But these feeling will pass, in due time. Make sure you are making every effort to keep yourself busy until the next one comes along. Always write in your journal of these feelings that you r having, because you have this to look back on and say I have grown from that silly little boy or whom ever.
2007-01-16 13:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you did the right thing, a cheat is a cheat regardless of whether he is a Christian or not. God will send the right one to you, and if you want to you can rub the ex nose in it when he sees what he has lost for a fantasy
2007-01-16 13:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one really understands what goes through the minds of men. You just have to get a bunch of your friends and have a big girl's night in and try to move on and find someone better..
2007-01-16 13:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter the color, the fact is he left you for someone else. To me this is a good sign he does not love you. Let him go, you are better off without this guy.
2007-01-16 13:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right and you are hurt. He did not choose you and that must feel crappy. He may have had feelings for you but he found that he felt more towards someone else. It happens. His feelings for you might have been real at the time, but then they may have changed. He moved on and so should you.
2007-01-16 13:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl... it's a tough decision! but then i think you have to move on but if you still love him fight for him... no matter what but if he choose that girl it's the time to move on... atleast you do your best to keep your relationship but then it just didn't work...
if he still loves you keep him. some guys have fantacies but if that fantacies bother your relationship you're in trouble. you can't be emily... so just be yourself. find someone who will love you the way you do...
2007-01-16 13:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he say he loves you, just to get in your pants...Sorry to be so direct but is the truth, and let me tell you people say the unbelieved things just to get what they want...Understand? Move on and forget about him it don't worth wast time trying to figure out things...
2007-01-16 13:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋